tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-59770073596271938692024-02-07T00:48:41.898-05:00Katie's Mindless RamblingsCrossFit, Nutrition, Life... and All Things In-Between.Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.comBlogger727125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-10963645153485827082017-01-21T08:50:00.000-05:002017-01-21T08:50:07.584-05:00Death by Pull-ups and Heavy Back SquatsI made it to the gym today. It seems like more often than not these days that's something of a miracle. It made my second day this week, which is better than the 1 I thought I was going to get, but still not quite the 4 I would like to be getting. I have stopped looking at the WOD's before I go because I've found that I will talk myself out of going if it's something I don't like, or am feeling like, right now, I'm particularly bad at. Like pull-ups. <br />
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Not getting to the gym on a regular basis, my pull-ups, dips, HSPU's and all things that require regular application to keep consistent with, seem to have become a goat for me. It's been frustrating at times, but I know that the only cure for this is simply to get to the box more and practice more. So, when I walked in and saw death by pull-up, I knew I was going to get an opportunity to "practice more". For not having done any pull-ups lately, I was pleasantly surprised that I was able to do as many as I did. I don't really have many calluses any more, so holding onto the bar was a bit painful, but despite that, I was able to start at 5 and make it through 9 minutes (missed it by 1 pull-up as time expired). So all in all, not too shabby but it's definitely an area I still need to work on improving. Again, doing them will help immensely, so I just need to keep focused on the idea of finding a better balance at work and making sure that I am getting to the gym so I can get in that "practice time". <br />
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After death by pull-up it was 10 minutes to find a heavy 5 rep back squat max. We did this last week immediately following sets of heavy cleans, so last week I had some Jelloesque legs when we did this, but still came up with a 5 X 205. Death by pull-up didn't really kill my legs, but I still felt tired under the bar, but managed to come up with a 5 X 210. I think my 5RM for back squats (with just doing back squat day) is somewhere in the vicinity of 5 X 225. So, to be doing WOD's beforehand, being that close to my 5 RM is pretty solid, and I'll definitely take it. As odd as it may sound, I think all the walking/stairs/lifting I do at my job does help to keep my strength up. It just unfortunately can't help me with things pull-ups or HSPU's. Although, maybe I could install a pull-up bar or an abmat in my corner so that I can do things when I need to stop placing orders......... hmmmm.... an idea has emerged......Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-91927842789016028172017-01-17T17:58:00.001-05:002017-01-17T17:58:03.950-05:00When the "happily ever after" fades.... <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">What feels like an eternity ago, I wrote a blog post entitled "My CrossFit Story". In that post I detailed all of the things good, bad, and ugly that had eventually led me to finding CrossFit. That story ended with lots of warm fuzzies. Me becoming stronger, both physically and mentally. Me growing through CrossFit, gaining friends, and learning about myself. Me hopping on a plane, running half marathons, and continuing to PR what felt like almost daily. Me losing weight and finally liking myself for the first time in well, ever. After writing that blog I felt as if I was destined to ride off into the sunset, as if I was destined to live "happily ever after". But, alas, as with many things in life, life had other plans.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Some time long after that blog, I had to have surgery. I couldn't walk for the better part of nearly 3 months, and then afterwards was so scared about blowing out my tendon I was almost afraid to do anything. Amidst that, I quit my job and started a new one, my best friends moved away, and life just started to go downhill. I wanted things to magically go back to the way they were, but for some reason, I couldn't make them. I couldn't convince myself to go to the box 5 days a week, and I couldn't convince myself to be that happy, poppy, excited girl I used to be in my posts. Sure, I wrote a pretty post about how 3 days a week was good for me, fit my lifestyle etc etc, but since that post, even just 3 days a week has been hard, and most often it's just 1 or 2. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Part of it is pride, and I'm having a very hard time overcoming it. In my mind I keep replaying a list of all the things I used to be able to do. I used to be able to deadlift 300. I used to be able to do a sub 5 Fran. I used to be able to consecutively do chest to bar pull-ups. I used to be just a hair's breath away from the ever elusive muscle-up. Going to the box now and watching people surpass me and watching them achieve all of their goals, just reminds me of how far away I am from the ones I used to have. I want to be happy for them, they are truly great people, but in the back of my head is some sort of sick jealousy because they seem to have all the things that I don't. Drive, determination, dedication..... I don't know where those things went, or how to get them back, and I'm jealous of everyone who seems to have found theirs while mine is lacking. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I think another part of this, is fear. Fear of being rejected because I am not who I used to be. Fear of being labeled as a failure.... fear of exposing my weaknesses, and my sensitivity and sadness regarding this situation.... fear of never being able to get back to where I used to be. What if I am never again what I used to be? What if how I used to be, is not something I can ever achieve again?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Additionally, there is the embarrassment. At the end of that CrossFit story post, I felt like I was in a movie. Riding off into the great unknown, but although it was unknown, it seemed from all indications that whatever was coming was going to be great and awesome and amazing. But, here we are, and it's not. I'm embarrassed at the fact that I cannot do the things I once did. I'm embarrassed at the fact that getting to the box 2 to 3 days a week is a struggle. And I'm embarrassed that the girl who once loved and found peace with herself, has allowed herself to regain all the weight she lost, and fall right back down the rabbit hole of self-loathing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">This.... this existence is not the "happily ever after" I envisioned years ago when I wrote that post. This embarrassment and unhappiness, this jealousy of those around me. This was never where I wanted or intended to be. So I think the question in my mind has become, what do we do when the "happily ever after" fades away? When anger replaces excitement when the alarm rings each day? When genuine pride and excitement for others is replaced by jealousy? When desire and determination are replaced by resignation and acceptance? Where do we go? How do we return to our former selves? Or if that is not possible, how do we move forward and find an alternate version of our self that we can love and be proud of? When the fairytale seems to have ended, what do we do?</span>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-28433179284899152372016-05-08T18:39:00.001-04:002016-05-08T18:39:13.627-04:00Turn and face the strange.... ch- ch- ch- changes...... <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">A long time ago, in what feels like a galaxy far, far away.... a very unhappy and overweight girl walked into a CrossFit gym for the very first time. She was scared to death, but totally sick of feeling bad about herself and how she looked. After just a few weeks of collapsing to the floor after every single workout, she was hooked to this new thing that she had found. Skills slowly developed, weights got heavier, and times dropped. The rest as they say, is history..... or is it? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The only thing that you can count on to remain the same in life, is that fact that EVERYTHING changes. For the better part of 2008-2013, I was in love with CrossFit. I was dedicated. I worked two jobs and nearly 90 hours a week and I made time to get to the box at 0515 at least 4 days a week. Sometimes 5. I would work until 11 or midnight and be right back up at 0415 and get to the box. Nevermind the beating that I gave my body, I was committed and I was in some of the best shape I've ever been in. I don't want to say I was slaying workouts because I am far from a metcon ninja, but, my performances were decent and lord knows I could sling some weight around. I lived it, slept it, and breathed it. Sometime around 2013 I even got on the Paleo train and started working on my health hardcore. So you could say I ate it too. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">But, something happened and I can't put my finger on the when or the where, but.... that desire, that burning sense or need for this to be all-encompassing, disappeared. I don't know when, and I don't know why, but somehow it vanished. After my foot surgery, I took several months before I could walk properly let alone even THINK about putting weight on my foot to the point where I could workout again. When I finally did get the nerve up to rejoin CrossFit in June of 2014, I made the decision not to go back to my old box. I couldn't go back there knowing that there was no way I could live up to what I used to be. I was a wreck. I had quit my job, started a new one, was way out of shape, and wasn't really even sure how things were going to go. I wanted a fresh start. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I found a great gym, with one of my old coaches, and I thought things would just fall back into place. But, they haven't. And I'm having a hard time putting my finger on the why. I have a goal to get back to going to the gym 4 days a week. That's been my goal for almost a year. I think in that year, it may have happened twice. That's not counting the goals I have to get back on my bike and back into running since I did agree that I am going to do the Army Ten Miler again this year. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">For some reason, I am having a VERY tough time meeting these goals. I know some folks will say that I just need to suck it up and do it, but the reality is, that what I'm so stumped by is WHY this is so hard. I used to be the girl who could literally beat the ever loving snot out of her body and then get right back up and go work out and do it all over again. There were plenty of days where I pushed 16-20 hour work days and I NEVER had a problem getting there. So I don't understand why I can't now. It just seems like there is a giant roadblock in front of me, and I haven't the foggiest how to move it. For the girl who used to have no problem popping her eyes open at 0415 to get to the gym by 0515, it feels foreign to struggle to just GET to the gym a lousy 4 days a week. I don't understand WHY this is so hard. I don't understand where this change came from or when or how it occurred. I'm completely flummoxed. It feels odd and it feels very strange that what was once so easy and so familiar, is now a complete challenge for me. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">My work schedule now is very different than it used to be, and rather than having a set day job, and a relatively set evening job, I jump all over the map. Some days I have a very early morning job, and some days I have a very late evening job, and then some days I have a very early morning job AND a late evening job. Maybe what my body is missing is the routine. Maybe that's what I need? Maybe I need to start getting up at the same time every day regardless and doing the same thing each day. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Maybe I just need to get back to blogging so that I can hold myself accountable again.... maybe I need to see it in print so that I can force myself to see things in black and white. I truthfully don't know. But, I know one thing is for sure. The only thing that stays the same, is that everything changes. Everything. </span>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-25900953636651561112015-07-10T17:03:00.001-04:002015-07-10T17:32:11.042-04:00I may have been paranoid, or I may have just saved my own life.... <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">About a month or so ago, I was getting ready to take a shower and noticed a red mark on my back by my love handles. (Yup, I've totally got those) It looked like I had scratched myself while getting dressed. It was roughly the width of my fingernail and it just looked like it could have been a spot that I hit while pulling on my pants, or even putting on a shirt. The weird thing was, I had no recollection of doing that. I thought something like that would have at least hurt somewhat and I would remember it, but I didn't. So I shrugged it off and went about my daily business.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Well, let's fast forward back into real time, you know like you do on your cable box? (Well, but when will THEN be NOW? Points if you can identify what movie that's from...tehehe....) Anyway, back in the now.... last week I started to get sick. I felt a cold creeping on. The acheiness, the sore throat, swollen glands, you know, the general icky feeling you get as you're getting sick. I was really tired and in general just not feeling great. I got through the weekend and on Monday thought, "Well, I feel gross. I'm going to take as much cold stuff and liquid as I can and go to bed as soon as I get home." I did as I said I was going to do, and was in bed by 5:30pm. I woke up the next day feeling loads better and thought, "Ha! I showed that cold who's boss!" I went into work that day, and left that day nearly crawling. I was wiped out. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The next day I was scheduled off from work but had a meeting to attend. I went in for the meeting and to get a few other assorted odds and ends done. Again, I started the day out just fine, but could barely stand up by the end of the day. I just couldn't seem to hold things together. I went home and went to bed. Yesterday, I woke up and thought, "Gosh, this house is filthy and I need to clean." So, I loaded up the dishwasher for a run, vacuumed around downstairs, and started to clean the bathroom. About an hour into all of this, I got so tired I had to stop. I came into the bedroom to lie down and immediately fell asleep for the next 3+ hours until it was time for work. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">As I was getting in the shower yesterday, I just happened to notice that that same spot from a month ago still had a mark, only this time, it didn't look like a fingernail scratch. It was no longer red, but it was oval. The middle was pretty much faded back to skin tone but the outside was ringed with red. I immediately started searching for online pictures of something similar because it just looked odd to me. I tried to dismiss it as nothing, but it really started to nag at me. I did some google searching and low and behold, it looked identical to some tick bite photos. What if I had been bitten by a tick and just hadn't realized it? The timeline fit. I had been hiking on Roosevelt Island outside DC while I had been on staycation a little over a month ago. I had gotten sick with flu like symptoms that definitely involved some joint pain as I was getting up in the mornings, and the fatigue I was experiencing was beyond just the regular, "I work two jobs and I'm tired" kind of fatigue. I suddenly became much more concerned.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I went to work as planned yesterday, and when I shared my paranoia with some of my coworkers (one of which has an advanced case of Lyme disease) they immediately told me to go get it checked. They didn't think I was being paranoid at all. So, I hunted around this morning for an urgent care center that would take my insurance and luckily discovered that one that just opened about a quarter mile away did. So, I went first thing this morning. I expressed my concerns to the nurse who weighed me and took my blood pressure, and the doctor who saw me asked a series of follow-ups based on that. After seeing the mark, he immediately said that it looked suspect and put me on a 2 week run of antibiotics and requested a tick borne illness panel. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Now, it may come back that I have a wicked cold that has just been tearing me apart, and the tick panels come back negative. In truth, I'm hoping that this is what happens. But, it may also come back with a positive identification for Lyme disease or another tick borne illness. If it comes back negative, hoo-ray! I'll take a cold any day. But if it comes back positive, then I will thank my paranoid self for speaking up. Lyme disease is one of those things that not too many people are talking about, but it definitely can have a serious impact on people's health. My coworker went undiagnosed for over a year. And in that year, the disease took away her strength, her energy, and her ability to do things that normal people like you and I do every day. I'm hoping that I don't have to experience anything like what she is going through, and I am thankful that, if it does in fact turn out to be Lyme disease, I will have caught it early enough to treat it. So, the moral of this story is, sometimes you need to listen to your own gut, even if you think you may be being paranoid. </span><br />
<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-10803999462805098782015-07-06T15:35:00.002-04:002015-07-06T16:09:05.543-04:00You don't do WHAT? I don't think we can be friends anymore..... <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The other day I wrote my first blog in a really, really long time. I know I'm a little rusty and my humor and usage of Katieisms is a little off, but give me some time to get these old wheels greased back up and things will be back to normal in no time. As I get back into this whole blogging thing, it only makes sense to talk about my life now and how CrossFit fits in there, not what CrossFit used to be for me. And there are some things that I'm going to put out there in that spirit of full disclosure that may sound.... odd if you've been a reader of my blog. Truth be told, I've taken so many hiatuses (hiati??!?) from blogging that I'm not sure any of my readers from the way back then still exist. But if you are still here, and wondering what in the hell I've been up to with my life, you may find things are vastly different these days. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The other day I wrote a blog about not being dead. Shocking I know that I was writing a blog, but yet I wasn't dead. (This blog is just chock FULL of rocket sciency type stuff folks) It seems to be the consensus of the masses that CrossFit is just, well, it's EVIL and if you try it, well you're going to like, rip an arm out of the socket and just, die a slow and horrible and painful death. Ok, ok, fine. They may be a SLIGHT exaggeration from the articles (HEY, artistic license ok????!?!?!) but you get the point. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Truthfully, I think one of the reasons that I was able to leave CrossFit and still come back after roughly 7 months has to do with my attitude towards CrossFit now, and in particular to how many days I work out. I'm going to confess to everyone now, that I only work out three days a week. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Yup, you read correctly. Three days. Not five, three. Now, if you need to go unfriend me on Facebook because you just can't be friends with me anymore, then please feel free. While I am an uber competitive person, I'm tired. I love CrossFit, but I'm tired. My body physically feels tired by the end of the week. Hell sometimes it's tired at the beginning of the week. I have learned that the key to my longevity and my continued success with CrossFit is to only go three days a week. I would like to work my way back up to four, but even after a year of being back at CrossFit, it's hard for me to do. See, I've been listening to my body more and more these days. And my body has been saying, ENOUGH. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As I've gotten older, my stress load has gotten heavier, my work load has gotten heavier, and quite honestly, my desire to be that bad ass chick killin' it at the gym has decreased. Now, does that mean it's gone? Oh hellz no, but it does mean that I no longer see a point in falling asleep at midnight, waking up at 0400 to go try to get a workout in, then going and working a 14 hour day. I've learned that that is actually counterproductive. The amount of stress that I'm putting on my body by doing that is actually undermining the work that I'm putting into my health and fitness. Making myself go to the gym five days a week is actually not good for my body, and it's not good for my head either, which whether you want to believe it or not, is a HUGE part of your fitness. Going to the gym five days a week turns CrossFit into another job, another stressor... and it stops being fun. It stops being about health and fitness and my journey towards being a healthy individual. It turns into something completely and totally different, and something that isn't positive. It turns it into, "Ok, how can I squeeze this in?" and "How much time can I take to relax after the wod before I have to run out the door and get home so I can shower and get to work?" It stops being about the camaraderie and the fellowship, and literally, for me anyway, becomes a walloping stress on my body because my body just can't figure out how to possibly get everything in. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I'd love to come five days a week. I love the people who coach me, and I love the people I work out with. But the truth is, that just isn't in the cards for me right now and that's ok. If it's not in the cards for you either, that's ok too. I think the one thing that we lose sight of in CrossFit is the fact that, this is not a sprint. Health and fitness are lifelong goals. The more stress you put on yourself to get to these goals RIGHT MEOW, the less fun it's going to be. The more like a job it's going to feel. At least that's what happened to me. I love working out three days a week. I enjoy going. I still get a good sweat on, and I am still pretty doggone strong, which I love. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Having said that, am I as strong now as I could possibly be? No. Am I as fast now as I could possibly be? No. But, I will say that I enjoy CrossFit more now than I used to going five days a week. It's easier for me to go to the box now than it was before. I also don't feel as beat up and abused as I did when I was going five days a week. See, when I jumped ship out of teaching last year, I wound up in a job that's actually much more physical than teaching. I actually work in a grocery store. I can tell you that it's critical that I'm able to move and lift and function. I can't afford to be so sore from workouts that I have to sit or not walk, or not be able to carry. It's important. Five days a week would honestly cripple me. I think four would be feasible and even better for me, but I'm working my way back up this ladder. For awhile, there were some weeks where two days was just all I could manage. But the important thing is, I went. This is a marathon. I want to be healthy and have a great relationship with my food and my body for the rest of my life. I don't want to get so focused on the short term goals that I get there and then go, ok that was great. And I'm done. Unfortunately, health and fitness don't work like that. They are constantly in flux, and constantly require attention and care. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So what's the point of all of this you ask? My point, you see, is that your CrossFit training should be about you. Screw the white board, and screw the main site. Yes, yes, blasphemy, I know. But here's the deal. There is only one name, and one number on the board that matter, and that is yours. For me, in order to maintain a long lasting relationship with CrossFit, I can't burn out, and I can't turn this into another job. Believe me, I KNOW that HQ says 3 on, 1 off. I know that. I know that the white board is always a source of inspiration, but it's also a source of negativity sometimes. Don't let these things take over your thoughts. CrossFit is about you, your health, your fitness. And honestly, if it doesn't fit into the 3 on, 1 off mold, then eff it! I'm learning, God but it's so slow, that the only person who can take care of me, is me. I have to find something that works for me, and right now, it's three days. As I said earlier, I'd love to add a fourth day back, but, quite honestly, it's hard. But regardless of whether or not I get four, the point is, do your own thing. Don't worry about what the sites and the white boards say. Do what is going to continue to help you on the path towards your health and fitness goals, and screw everybody else. (Not literally, I definitely meant figuratively) As Aerosmith says, "life's a journey, not a destination, and how high can you fly with broken wings?" If you're constantly injured or tired from trying to wod everyday, cut back. Do you and find what makes you happy. The relationship you are in with your health and fitness is the longest one you will ever be in, so make it a good one. Make yourself happy. </span></span><br />
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-24640172004218464652015-07-02T22:22:00.003-04:002015-07-06T16:08:42.135-04:00According to, well, EVERYONE, I should be dead by now.... but, good news, I'm not! <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I can't tell you how many times I see articles swearing up and down that CrossFit is bad, and that it causes more injuries than any other sport. Not to mention, it's helping to pave the way for some very lucky doctors' children to go to college! Thanks CrossFit! Ugh, every single time I see one of those articles it makes me want to start punching the computer screen. Ok, well, maybe not that. I would have to pay to replace it, and yeah... about that. But, you get the point. It makes me angry. According to all of those people, and all of those articles for that matter, I should actually be dead. No, seriously!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">According to all of these people, there is no way that someone could do CrossFit for a long period of time. According to all of those articles, the injuries will get me, and I will realize the evils of CrossFit, and decide that there are far better uses of my time out there, because CrossFit is bad. I don't really want to ruin all of, well, we'll just keep calling them "those people's" day, but.... I have a very deep, dark secret I want and NEED to confess to the world. Are you ready? Of COURSE you are. You were born ready..... deep breath... here we go..... I'VE BEEN CROSSFITTING FOR OVER 7 YEARS! (almost 8). </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Wait, wha? Yeah, you read that right...... 7 flipping years. There was a minor hiccup in there with that whole foot surgery thing, but that actually was not a direct result of CrossFit. That was a direct result of me not having an arch in my foot and doing a lot of walking for the past x number of years. But back to my point here.... 7 years is a long time. And here's the thing I don't get.... if CrossFit is so evil, if CrossFit is just going to lure me down the dark and dangerous road to rhabdo and injuries and totally ruin my life..... uh, why has it not ruined my life and killed me yet?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">My relationship with CrossFit throughout the years hasn't always been rosy. We've had our ups and downs just like any relationship would, mostly due to work and schedule related issues, but in the end, it's never broken me. Have I had injuries? Legitimate ones? Yeah. In 7 years, I've had 3. 3 injuries that actually required the care of someone smarter than me. 1 of those injuries actually wasn't really even CrossFit related, but CrossFit was more or less the straw that broke the camel's back. I had tried to move and set up my classroom the week before the competition. Is it any wonder my back was really sore after the weekend? Of course not! I'd spent the whole week prior using improper form to lug around boxes of crap, not to mention desks, chairs, and other assorted classroom items. It's sort of a no brainer. I should have pulled out of the competition and I didn't, so I don't blame CrossFit for that one at all. The other 2 were honestly more my fault than CrossFit's. It's true. I'm a stubborn individual. And I paid the price for that. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Now, before everyone goes around shouting, see! She did get injured, also understand that while these injuries did require some attention, they were not life-threatening, nor did they actually keep me from working out. They also happened at competitions where I was away from my home box, and my inner "Just DO it!" kicked in. So before anyone accuses my coaches of not watching me, understand that this was something different entirely. These injuries were minor dings and tweaks that required a little working around. I had to get creative sure, but at the end of the day, I could have done the same damage to myself in my classroom alone as I did in the gym.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">So what's my point? My point is, if I listen to everyone else out there, the naysayers, the "fitness experts", the bloggers, the article writers, and the self-proclaimed couch experts, I should, for all intensive purposes, be dead. CrossFit, in this length of time, should have debilitated me to the point where I shouldn't be able to move or enjoy life. So in other words, dead. But I'm not. SHUT THE FRONT DOOR! NO WAY! Yup, way. I'm not dead. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">So what does that mean exactly? Well clearly, this must mean that I'm a freak of nature with extraordinary athletic prowess. Really? I'm over here rolling on the floor at that one. It couldn't be farther from the truth. Ok, so then, I must have a private doctor who helps me every day? Seriously, do you have any idea how much that would cost? I don't know if you all know this or not, but uh, I'm not Dana Torres. Well then clearly, I must be lying.... nope, not at all. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">So this begs the question then, of why am I not dead? Because I said so! Kidding, but I've always wanted to use that as a legitimate answer to a question. I don't have kids so I may never get to use that one. I had to... But back to the matter at hand... me being dead, or not rather. Why am I not dead?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I think that my story illustrates what a lot of us have known for a really long time. CrossFit, when done as it's intended, isn't a bad thing. CrossFit can be an important, and long lasting, part of your life. CrossFit can be a tool of your health and fitness. And when I say your health and fitness, I don't just mean for your body, but for your mind too. The story of the past year of my life is an interesting one, and maybe some time I'll get around to writing about it, but I know that without CrossFit in my life, there are times when my mental fortitude would have probably broken. I know that there were times were I treated what I was going through much the same way I treat those difficult wods in the gym. I put my head down, gritted my teeth, and found a way to just keep moving. Without CrossFit in my life, I'm not sure that that strength would have been there. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Now, this doesn't mean that CrossFit is without risks, absolutely not! But any CrossFitter or coach worth their salt will tell you that the key to longevity in CrossFit is acknowledging those risks, and working to minimize them. And THAT is exactly what I've done. I am absolutely not super human, and I am by no means rich enough to provide myself with daily personal care from an advanced team of doctors. What I have done is talked extensively with my coaches about what I've got going on in my life. They know and understand that my schedule is insane. They know what the limitations are for someone like me who is working out the number of days I work out, and they are quick to tell me if they think I'm out of line. I've taken rest days when I'm tired, and I've stayed in bed on some days rather than coming to the gym because I understand the inherent risks and long term affects of working out when your body is suffering from sleep deprivation. I've changed my diet, and I've developed the attitude that what I can do on any given day is simply what I can do. These things have enabled me to be able to continue to CrossFit, despite the fact that, according to everyone else, I should be dead. There is longevity to be found in CrossFit, without a doubt, and I'm living proof.... literally. </span><br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-25747152347702079602014-10-02T10:24:00.001-04:002014-10-02T10:24:09.354-04:00The Stages of CrossFitdom<div id="dE_H" style="font-family:Helvetica;font-size:18px;white-space:pre-wrap;-webkit-overflow-scrolling:touch;;width:100%; height:100%; ;">I'm not sure if it's just me, but it seems like lately, I've seen a ton of articles written about CrossFit. CrossFit is bad, CrossFit is evil, CrossFit causes injuries, and everyone who does CrossFit never shuts up about CrossFit. I'm not going to write a blog screaming that CrossFit is the best thing and that everyone who wrote those articles is wrong, because I think there is some truth to them. But I think the truth has to do with what stage of Crossfitdom you're in. I know, I know, I just invented another new word...you're welcome. But I think that honestly and truly, CrossFit is kind of like grieving, in a way. They always talk about the stages you go through with grief, how it's a progression. I think the same can be said with CrossFit. By now I'm sure you're scratching your heads and going what in the world is she talking about. Well, allow me to humbly explain what I think are the stages of Crossfitdom.<div><br></div><div><b>Stage 1- The Window Shopper</b></div><div>CrossFitters in this stage aren't really CrossFitters....yet. These are the folks who are pretty curious about CrossFit. They heard about it through a friend or coworker and are wondering about this mysterious cult like thing. They do a little light digging on the interwebs and perhaps ask a question or two of the friend or coworker like "How often did you go when you started?" Or "How sore were you when you started?" From their inquires, folks can tell they are interested but need a little help jumping into Stage 2. These people can often be easily spotted doing a slow drive by or by pressing their faces to the glass of local Crossfit boxes. These CrossFitters are harmless to non-CrossFitters and can still function in outside society. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Stage 2- The Newb</b></div><div>As the name implies, these are folks who are brand spankin new to CrossFit. These folks are often found in elements class or doing trial classes at local boxes. Their curiosity has grown to the point where they have decided to dip their toss in the CrossFit Kool-Aid and they are learning whether or not they like the movements and atmosphere enough to stay. CrossFitters in this stage will begin to have discourse surrounding their exercise as they may begin to be noticeably sore or notice an increase in energy. The CrossFitters in this stage are still relatively harmless to non-CrossFitters and can still function in outside society. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Stage 3- The Novice</b></div><div>These are the folks who have graduated elements and have been doing CrossFit for 1-3 months. In this stage they begin to dabble a bit with the idea of making some dietary changes, or coming in more often to the gym. CrossFitters in this stage are seeing noticeable changes in their bodies and are beginning to become more and more in love with the CrossFit world. While they are not chugging the Kool-Aid from the bottle, they are sipping the libations quite freely and are beginning to discuss what they are doing, as others are noticing changes too. It is in this stage that we first begin to see the "conversion" factor. It is in the "Novice" stage where we begin to see CrossFitters begin to try to bring new members into the fold. They tell everyone that they've "never felt better" and that they (their friends, family, coworkers, SO's) should really think about giving it a shot. CrossFitters in this stage can still function in outside society, but can at times be annoying to non-CrossFitters. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Stage 4- The Honeymoon Stage</b></div><div>Depending on the CrossFitter, this stage can last anywhere from month 4-years. In this stage, EVERYTHING about CrossFit is the best. This is the stage in which the first rule of CrossFit becomes crucial. The first rule of CrossFit is.... always talk about CrossFit. And why not? CrossFitters in this stage are in love with EVERYTHING! They're making great gains. Times are dropping, weights are increasing, they've discovered Paleo and the whole world is their oyster. They feel so damned fantastic that they want EVERYONE else to feel just as freakin' amazeballs as they do. These CrossFitters have the best of intentions, they really do, but unfortunately they routinely piss off outside society and can only be seen with other CrossFitters because of.... the first rule of CrossFit. And perhaps we should include in the first rule of CrossFit, always talk or FACEBOOK about CrossFit. If the only thing you ever talk about is CrossFit, well eventually those people who DON'T CrossFit will get annoyed hanging out with you. At some point, this stage will end, however, this may be the WORST of the CrossFit stages. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Stage 5- The "CrossFit Competitions are FUN" Stage</b></div><div>Now, the interesting thing about this stage is, some people skip this stage and head straight for stage 6. Others skip 5 an 6 all together. But, with the rise of CrossFit competitions, it's only natural that many CrossFitters will at some point wonder just how well they would do if they competed against other people who were doing the same thing. These CrossFitters have set goals for themselves and really ought to be commended for setting goals and working hard. However, in this stage, the first rule of CrossFit still applies, and even though they are not serious about competing at high levels, there is still a lot to worry about in this stage.... particularly competition day outfits. To outsiders, this type of conversation is both baffling and frustrating. Who really needs to know where to get knee high socks? Ah yes, CrossFitters. CrossFitters in this stage have limited success interacting with outside society, and although again they are competing just for fun, they tend to intermingle with just their own, especially as during this stage diet is key. Eat for performance. Paleo only. No, I will NOT be going out for wings and beer....mmmmmmm beeeeerrrr.....</div><div><br></div><div><b>Stage 6- The "This shit is serious, and I mean business" </b> </div><div>For people in this stage of CrossFit, rules #2-3 of CrossFit become important, in addition to the first rule of CrossFit. Always talk about CrossFit, always be doing CrossFit, and when you're not doing CrossFit, read up/watch up on CrossFit. These CrossFitters really want to be the next Rich, and take it very seriously. Diet is key.... must get protein and my Progenex. True story? Sometimes these people are annoying even to other CrossFitters. It's great that they have goals, but if their goals are causing them to judge others, it can become a bit dicey. CrossFitters in this stage do not interact with outsiders. They're too busy talking about CrossFit, doing CrossFit, or reading up/watching up on CrossFit. Not all, but many CrossFitters in this stage simply need to be left alone. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Stage 7- The Healthy CrossFitter</b></div><div>The CrossFitters in this stage have come full circle. They have had the honeymoon stage where they have been in love with everything, and more than likely they've gone through one of the competition stages at some point. They've realized that while training and diet are important, there is a balance to everything. These CrossFitters realize that it is possible to be stupid, and know when to back off (probably because they learned the hard way once). They also respect things like rest days, and understand that even at this stage, scaling is an option. These are the people who want to be fit for the sake of being healthy and having a great life. They understand they have limits, but that CrossFit is a fantastic way to help them maintain an active lifestyle and still be pretty damned ripped. These CrossFitters are fully integrated into society and you probably wouldn't even realize that they were walking among you, except for the fact that you just saw a totally normal looking office chick save a child's life by deadlifting a car off his small frame while wearing 4 inch heels. Dead give away. </div><div><br></div><div>Now, some may ask if it is possible to revert through the stages. Absolutely. Full blown injuries (ie bone spur removal!!!) can definitely take you back a few stages. It can seem frustrating to have to go through it all again. A healthy CrossFitter can also decide to re-enter the competition world. The important thing to understand is what stage a CrossFitter is in so that you understand how to approach them. Asking a honeymooner about CrossFit may wind you up in an hour long conversation about CrossFit. Approaching a serious competitor may wind up with a "do you even CrossFit bro" look. But, if you keep your eyes peeled and know the signs, you'll know which stage a CrossFitter is in, and be able to gauge their ability to interact with you on a non-CrossFit level. </div><div><br></div><div>******In the spirit of full-disclosure, I have been in all of these stages, except for the really serious stage. I have however, watched many people go through that stage, and at times, it can be very off-putting. Everything I say about the stages, is said very tongue in cheek. Well, except about the beer. I never joke about beer. In all seriousness though, all CrossFitters though do deserve to be commended for finding something they enjoy and working towards being healthy. </div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br /></div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-89956596524906087602014-09-04T14:15:00.001-04:002014-09-04T14:15:15.929-04:00Leaving Education Behind<div id="dE_H" style="font-family:Helvetica;font-size:18px;white-space:pre-wrap;-webkit-overflow-scrolling:touch;background-image:none;;width:100%; height:100%; ;"><div id="drlimg"></div><br><img id="img6e21782b-6855-45dc-a8f7-40b11f086da7" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir-XLDhaXSDkZsds7s_NJ0GV1XCJ3KFNLAHBUjrI7oWvhT4CNCnxZgVBCnSKNN5sk7ZXptjmYsb8a56P6GLM93EFkq2l1MX-nLSDobtlUvuNeGnqZe7WTJ7oLHCQK1LMiCgKoidU5-bt_I/" mvc="true" class="">A short while ago, I wrote a blog about slowing down my life, and I mentioned in that blog that I had made the decision to leave education. I also mentioned that there were many reasons that ultimately I decided to make that choice. I never got around to writing about why I ultimately decided to leave the education field, but with school returning in the DC metro area last week and this week, I've been seeing a lot of links to articles about teachers. More importantly about good teachers and bad teachers and who is responsible for students' learning, and why we are failing our students. A lot of fingers are pointed at the teachers, and it is very frustrating to me. I would challenge anyone to step into the life of a teacher even for just one day before they start blaming them for the evils of the world. Teachers have so many things on their plates, that many people don't even realize how difficult it is to be a teacher. Instead it's just so much easier to blame them for everything that goes wrong with our schools, regardless of the fact that so much is out of their hands. I got so incensed by some of what I read, especially some of the comments, that I felt that it was time to blog about why I left. I know I don't have many readers, but if my ramblings can help people have a better understanding of what it's like to be in a school, and what it's like to go through this on a daily basis, then the time it takes me to write this will be well spent. Perhaps it will even help to shed a little light on things like teacher retention, and why it's so hard to keep people in this profession. There are many reasons that I left teaching, and if I listed every single one, this blog would be pages long. I'll try to give probably the most compelling reasons (at least for me).<br><div><br></div><div><b>Reason #1- Carrying the load</b></div><div>I know this may sound like an odd way to explain why I left teaching, but it's the honest to goodness truth. I could not carry the load that I was carrying any longer. I don't mean physically carrying my bag and papers to the car, I mean the emotional load. If you think that when teachers leave at the end of the day, they stop thinking about teaching, you are very, very, very wrong. It got the point in my life where I was constantly thinking, talking, and worrying about my kids and how I was going to reach them. I couldn't go a weekend, or a weeknight, without texting a fellow teacher and asking them about a lesson to help so and so get this hard concept, or a plan to get so and so more focused in class. As teachers, we carry the emotional burdens of our students as well. We know that our kids don't always have everything at home, and so even when we are taking the time to do things in our lives that we need to do, ie groceries or a Target run, we are thinking about our kids. We're picking up the little extras, notebooks, crayons, snack bars etc for the kids we know need it. We're staring at a sale rack of items, wondering if we buy these, if it will help so and so learn better. We often put the needs of our kids ahead of ourselves, or our families. We so badly want to help them and reach them that they take the front seat, while everything else takes the back seat. If you've ever been a caregiver, you know how it feels to constantly put others first. It is exhausting. As teachers we worry about the types of home lives our kids have, and when we know certain things about our students, we try to help, and we worry. We worry about the bruises, or the uncle who seems just a bit off, or we worry about the cleanliness of our students when we see them in the same clothes for the third day in a row. We want to help them all and we try. We know when there are divorces and we open our ears and our hearts, and when we hear stories of parents and siblings who are dying, we take their pain and make it our own. We are teachers but we are friends, and sometimes ears, and sometimes we are more parents than we ought to be, but we do it because we care. But caring and carrying others burdens has a price. And after 9 years, I simply could not pay it anymore.</div><div><br></div><div><b>Reason #2- Pass that test!</b></div><div>I'm sure that no one is surprised that I mentioned standardized testing. Truthfully, I never minded the implementation of state standards. The state could certainly tell me what to teach, but they never told me HOW to teach it. It was up to me and my creative brain to accomplish that. And truthfully, I think that this is something I was good at, being creative. But at the end of the day, they wanted to measure what I taught, and here is where we butt heads. I understand the reasoning for the testing, however, expecting the pass rates that they do, is simply absurd. Time and time again I was told I needed better pass rates. Time and time again I was told to "help them get over the hump" but no one ever stops to think that not all of these students came to me with the same set of skills. Last year for example, only 34% of my students had PASSED the math test the year before. So according to the state only 34% of my kids were ready for 4th grade math, but yet, by the end of the year, 100% were expected to have mastered 4th grade math. So those students who were not proficient in 3rd grade math, are now somehow supposed to be proficient in 4th grade math? How does that work? How do you fix all of the issues from the previous year, and KEEP GOING? How does that work? In addition, the school that I was a part of was a focus school in the state of Virginia. This means we were being closely monitored due to our low standardized testing scores. We were subject to county and state walk throughs on a regular basis. We were constantly giving more and more and more assessments to gauge the progress of our students. The county and state scrutinized test scores on everything from county benchmarks to end of unit math assessments. Time and time again I was asked to explain my low pass rates. Why weren't more of my students doing well? It was terrifying, it was exhausting, and it was stressful. Stressful to the point where I would wake up at 2:30-3:00 in the morning because of the anxiety about the test scores. I began to see my students, not as people anymore, but as numbers. Pass rates, and fail rates, and it saddened me. At 32 years old, I felt as if I was headed for a full scale heart attack. To put it simply, my life was worth more than those test scores. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Reason #3- 100+ hour work weeks</b></div><div>I hear people say all the time, that teachers are so lucky because they're done at 3:00 and walk out the door without a care in the world. I want to set the record straight, NO ONE, not even the worst teachers out there, are capable of actually doing this. Why? Because quite frankly there just simply is not any time during the day to do half of the things that you are required to do. There is no way to return calls, answer emails, make copies, write lessons, cut out lesson materials, hunt down books and resources, make new resources, collaborate, desagregate data, hold meetings, grade papers, update websites, attend professional developments, read to continue educating yourself, and teach a class of 25+ students in a 7.5 hour work day. Teachers literally put in hundreds of hours worth of overtime in a year. It's almost as if it's an expected part of the profession. It's expected that they will arrive early, stay late, meet at any given moment, work weekends on lesson plans, and take any work that doesn't get done in the classroom home to work on at night. My contract hours never officially started until 8:40, however, I was in the building by 7:00, if not earlier, almost every day. Most days, unless I had an appointment or had to go to my other job, I was in the building until well past 6:00. And yes, I logged time at home, and on the weekends as well. Even on breaks, it was hard for me to go a day without picking up my school work. In the end, the number of hours that teachers put in is insane, and I just couldn't do it anymore. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Reason #4- Finances</b></div><div>A lot of people talk about the median salary of teachers, and talk about how it's so awesome, and how it's pretty sweet that we get summers off too. I am someone who put myself through school, paid for my first car, apartment, move to Virginia, etc. Because of this, and also a few other poor decisions upon moving to VA, I am in debt up to my eyeballs, and quite frankly, my salary didn't cut it, especially after it was frozen for consecutive years. I've worked a second job for years, trying to get ahead. But in truth, the second job actually hurts me because I wind up owing in thousands of dollars in taxes each year. It's kind of crazy. I need the second job, but yet, the second job puts me even further in debt. One might say that I should change the second job, but, the second job provides the finances that I need in the moment....so what do I do? In the summer months, I worked even more at the second job so that I would have money to open my classroom in the fall. Teaching is a profession where it's customary, nay, almost expected, that teachers will buy their own supplies and materials. I can't tell you how many thousands of dollars worth of materials I purchased and put back into my own classroom over the years. Everything from arts and crafts supplies, books, games, puzzles, furniture, carpets, software, movies, and even bulletin board supplies. It's crazy to think that the salary I did receive was expected to then be spent on things for my job. How many other professions out there buy their own supplies? Do secretaries buy their own pens and paper? Do doctors buy their MRI machines? No, their employers do, and then they use them. Why in the world do schools expect teachers to foot the bill for so many things? Fiscally speaking, I just couldn't do it anymore. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Reason #5- Being a personal punching bag</b></div><div>If I had to recount every time I took a verbal lashing from a parent, I'm not sure that I could truthfully recount every incidence. I understand that parents are very protective of their children. I can only imagine how I would be if I had any of my own, but I think that truthfully parents sometimes forget that teachers are human beings as well. I can't tell you how many times students went home and told half truths about things that happened at school, which then prompted angry emails and phone calls from parents. They couldn't believe how oblivious I could be to things going on in the classroom or in the lunchroom, and they couldn't understand how I could be such a horrific person. They accused me of being unfeeling and not caring about their children, they accused me of being mean to and not liking their children, and they said that I wasn't doing what I could to meet the needs of their children. I can't tell you how terrible it feels to work almost 12 hours everyday, and feel like you are doing so much to try to help your students, and then to receive emails like these. It feels like no matter what you do, you simply can't do enough. It hurts when you feel like you are making creative lessons and doing everything you can, only to basically be told you are worthless and a terrible person for doing what you are doing. I can think of no job where people have as much free reign to harass employees as in the teaching profession. If you try to step to a server, or bartender, or a nurse or a doctor and tell them they are a horrible person, someone else will get involved. A manager, a supervisor, SOMEONE. But with education, it's perfectly acceptable for parents to belittle and berate teachers as they see fit. Emotionally, it's very hard to deal with this type of thing all the time. I carried those emails with me, when I left the building, when I was in the building, and when I tried to sleep at night. I will never forget, so long as I live, the email from a parent saying they wanted to sue me because another child had made a racial comment to his son. At the time, I was not present in the classroom because I had been pulled for a special education meeting, so I had to try to investigate the situation. When I returned, his son was pulled for early dismissal before I could investigate. He emailed me that evening threatening to sue me because no action had been taken. Nevermind the fact that I couldn't take any action because I couldn't investigate what had happened because his child wasn't in school. I cried that night, and did not sleep after that email came through. I worried about it for two days until the situation was resolved. I was a terrible wreck. Emotionally speaking, I could not be the punching bag for people anymore. </div><div><b><br></b></div><div><br></div><div><b>Reason #6- Love and Life</b></div><div>Since moving to Virginia 9 years ago, teaching has been my life. I don't mean that in a figurative sense, I mean that literally. It has been the focal point of everything I do, and it has dictated my life. I would go to school early and stay late. I worked my second job because teaching didn't pay enough to pay the bills and have anything left over. I worked in the summers to try to save up money and try to get out of debt. I went to the gym at 0515 so I could stay late at school and have time at night to work. But mostly, if it didn't have anything to do with teaching, the gym, or my second job, I largely ignored it. That means family, friends, hobbies, and also love weren't really anywhere in the picture. At the heart of the heart of me, I am a hopeless romantic. I am a one and done type of girl, and I want love and a happy marriage at some point in my life. For the past 9 years, I have dated people only when it's fit into my schedule. I've had long distance relationships with the wrong people because it fit into the schedule. I could call or text when I had time, see them when I had time, and truthfully it didn't really interfere with my day to day operations. That type of relationship is never going to end the way I want. Working every minute of every day and focusing on nothing but teaching and students and money is NEVER going to make me truly happy. At the end of the day, my emotional needs are important, and it took me a very long time to realize that. Not having anything in my life except work will never fully satisfy me and will only lead to resentment and regret for opportunities missed later on down the line. </div><div><br></div><div>I think that in my time, I was at least a decent teacher. Some would say I was good. In my opinion, I never had the pass rates to consider myself good, and I know in my last year of teaching, my stress level was so high that I was a lot harder on my kids than I should have been. But regardless, I think I was decent, and there was a period of time where I really did enjoy my work, but that time is not now. Now I need to focus on me. I don't think that I'm alone in how I feel about teaching right now. I've seen many people leave the profession and move on to other things. Happiness and health, those things are important to have in life. Unfortunately, teaching can take those things away from you without you realizing it has happened. I'm glad I realized it before it was too late and made the choice to move on. In a few years, my mind may change. I may be more financially stable and able to have a less stressful teaching career. Maybe I'll be married and I won't feel like teaching is keeping me from finding a piece of me that's missing. Who knows.... but I know for now, this is the path I'm on, and these are the reasons that quite simply I cannot continue to do what I have always done. I hope that if you are friends with, or know, a teacher, you take the time to really understand what they do instead of making blind statements. In all of these reasons above, there is a lot of self-sacrifice. I can't make those sacrifices anymore. They still are. So be kind, and let them know they are valued and appreciated. </div><div><br /></div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-62325866492157754862014-07-22T23:20:00.001-04:002014-07-22T23:20:56.679-04:00Living, for time<div id="dE_H" style="font-family:Helvetica;font-size:18px;white-space:pre-wrap;-webkit-overflow-scrolling:touch;;width:100%; height:100%; ;"><br><img id="img76242ec2-af08-433c-9d22-cf3f4a921b1d" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiR0Jf5B1rFZZlHLgYAHtlyY8vwNIPOxRBcoRmCTt6CPGOyaB54hQn8GubWcfrzjJ562W7hZPiEPP7ve4nCWD4LIAYZQUtDg4ekH6wh9Ii896Y5p3TzEe-nmtz4W3-OpU8Za6m1jSg2cv18/" mvc="false" class="" style="height: 265px; width: 556px; margin: 0px; resize: none; zoom: 1; display: block; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; box-shadow: none;"><br />If you've been a long time reader (truth I'm not sure those exist anymore after my long hiatus) you've probably noticed a little bit more of a serious tone on my blog for awhile. I'm not sure what happened exactly, but somewhere along the line, I think I may have grown up a bit. Is this what happens when you hit 30? Don't get me wrong, I still love glitter (ooh! Shiny things!), loud music, heavy weights over my head, and inventing my own words. But my desire to blog about shiny things every day has diminished, if that makes sense. <div><br></div><div>As I've gotten older, I've changed. Most recently, I've changed careers. And if you ask me point blank why I've changed careers, the answer is not as cut and dry as you might think. Yes, it was ultimately because I wasn't happy, but it was a lot more than that. It's a complex tirade (which for now I'll spare you from) that would include the phrase "living, for time". As CrossFitters, everything is about AMRAP and FT! We're competitive little buggers, and sometimes that competitive tendency spills out into the rest of our lives. One of the reasons that I quit my job, and my career, is because I was tired of living life, for time. </div><div><br></div><div>Everyday I had to have conversations with myself. "At what time do I need to be up if I'm going to get to the gym? I need 15 minutes drive time, and is my bag already packed? Ok, no, then I need 15 minutes to get mobile and pack. Ok, oh shit wait. Today I go to Dogfish after school. Ok, I need to pack that bag too. Let's back up the alarm another 15 minutes. " Later in the day, "Ok, at what time do I need to be out of school to make it to Dogfish on time? I need to be there by 5, so I need to leave no later than 4:15." "Oh, I have to work this weekend, where can I cram in running to the store and getting over to the dry cleaners to get my choir dress done." "Oh and crap, I said I would meet ____ (insert name here) for coffee this week. Where can I do that?" </div><div><br></div><div>That was my life. It was for time. How much time do I need? What's my work load? I have to complete these tasks under my time cap because I've got to move onto the next task, and if there's not enough time in the time cap, we just need to move faster. I was constantly moving through my life at a break neck pace. Constantly doing everything quickly. Now, I know I live in DC and it seems that everyone is always moving fast, but life isn't meant to be lived "for time". I shouldn't be rushing through things on a daily basis. I should be able to take some time to slow down and smell the roses so to speak. And with my old job, I couldn't. I simply couldn't. I was tired, and I didn't want to live my life "for time" anymore. </div><div><br></div><div>Yesterday's wod hit me pretty hard today (HELLO walking lunges with 130 on the bar.... ooops) and I thought, today would be a great day to not fall asleep on the couch after work and get in a recovery wod of sorts on the bike. So I put TT on the back off my car and away we went. Oh, how rude, I'm sorry. I don't think you've met TT. Here she is!<br><br><img id="img9bdbbd7a-dc56-4b05-8a0e-52a39ad8ff1d" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeTwzOzR0-MSvl7uskaZeqmAgAyfT_3UFCttRfefYMiGmxSg_yXALzMsfFzguPi_zi6vczfr5LSS5GWGEA1uAWySD7FptTbqk3ItfRgjjVQ2VjsOFJiRx5-j1pmrwmvxcf5SR71ysNxdN5/" mvc="false" class="" style="height: 316px; width: 516px; margin: 0px; resize: none; zoom: 1; display: block;"><br>While I was on the bike tonight doing my "recovery" wod, I caught myself trying to pedal faster, and hurry up. Why? I have no flipping idea. The purpose was to ride slow, let my legs loosen up, get the lactic out. But no, next thing I knew, here we were. Going for a "for time" kind of bike ride. So you know what I did? I stopped. I stopped because I need to remind myself that this isn't how life is supposed to be. Life isn't a "for time" type of wod. I pulled off the trail, and looked around. And you know what I saw? Beauty. The sun was setting and filtering through the trees, which by the way did I mention that they were next to the Potomac? Rowers were out on the water, and a huge flock of Canadian Geese were busy eating and pooping on everything! (Ok, the pooping part isn't beautiful, but they totally were.) And of course, in the background were the monuments. With a small turn to my left or right, I was within plain sight of the Kennedy Center, the Lincoln Monument, the Jefferson Memorial, and also the Washington Monument. How can you not just stop and take pause when you realize the enormity of that? People travel thousands of miles to come see these historic landmarks, and here I am so worried about getting my bike ride in for time, that I miss it. I ignore it. Life is not a sprint. It's not a wod where you get a chance to hit it again another day. If you're like me, maybe you should join me in NOT living life "for time" and actively taking a moment to try to slow things down. In my opinion, which is of course ever so humble, there are many things in life that shouldn't be for time. I've made a small list, just in case you were curious ( :) ) about what I think is worth slowing down for. You may disagree, you may agree, or you may want to add on, so feel free to comment. The purpose of my blog, well there are many, but the main purpose is to share my experiences with others, in hopes that someone may learn from the path I've already taken. Take this list, and maybe revisit it from time to time, and try to find some time for you to slow down. Life is never "for time". </div><div><br></div><div>Katie's List of Things that are Totally and Eternally NOT for Time</div><div>1. Good cups of coffee</div><div>2. Good hugs</div><div>3. Breakamafast/Lunch/Dinner with good friends/company</div><div>4. Hikes</div><div>5. Bike rides (unless it's a race, then totally different)</div><div>6. Ice cream (in addition to getting a head rush, it's gone too fast!)</div><div>7. Slow dances whether in public, or your kitchen</div><div>8. Saturdays/Sundays/any day of the week where you don't have to work. Put the to-do list down. Target and Wal-Mart will still be there tomorrow!</div><div>9. Cuddling</div><div>10. S'mores (see #6)</div><div>11. Good books</div><div>12. A 1RM deadlift (DEFINITELY not for time)</div><div>13. Decorating for the holidays</div><div>14. A good date</div><div>15. A good kiss</div><div>16. Phone calls/Face Time with friends/loved ones</div><div>17. Puzzles</div><div>18. Good glasses of wine/whiskey/bourbon or your other beverage of choice</div><div>19. The day (once it's gone, it won't come back)</div><div>20. Baths (the door is locked, there is a book on the floor, and I lit the candles for a reason. Come back later.)</div><div><br /></div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-4182907490668637242014-07-18T22:25:00.001-04:002014-07-18T22:25:30.246-04:00Making Amends<div id="dE_H" style="font-family:Helvetica;font-size:18px;white-space:pre-wrap;-webkit-overflow-scrolling:touch;;width:100%; height:100%; ;"><font face="Georgia" size="3">For a long time after I first found CrossFit, it was a focus of my world. I thought about it all the time, talked about it all the time, wrote about it all the time, and when I wasn't talking about it or blogging about it, I was reading other CrossFit blogs, reading things on the main site, and essentially saturating myself in CrossFit. In essence, CrossFit wasn't a part of my life, it was my life. I didn't skip days. I was in the box five days a week. I didn't cherry pick wods. I did them whether I liked them or not. Work wasn't an excuse, and I scoffed at people who talked about how tired they were and how they just needed a break. </font><div><font face="Georgia" size="3"><br></font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3">But somehow, as time wore on, things changed for me. I loved competing, and I loved CrossFit, but it somehow got to be too much. I couldn't spend hours blogging anymore. I couldn't spend endless hours reading about CrossFit or watching videos. Something shifted. I was feeling run down more often. I was sore all the time, and while I was making strength gains across the board, I wasn't happy with my progress. Somewhere along the line, CrossFit began feeling like a job. And since I already had two, adding one more on top of that felt like a heavy burden to bear. I was having my doubts last summer about whether or not to continue with CrossFit. I had discovered the beauty that was Shenandoah, the joy that was riding a bicycle, and the peace that comes with making decisions that just feel <i>right</i>. Despite my nagging feeling that maybe CrossFit and I needed to take a break, I made the decision to compete at the Superfit in Richmond. A week of unloading my classroom had left my back tight, and a lot of loading in the wods from snatches, cleans, burpees, toes to bar, and rowing left me nearly immobile. After that I had to face the reality. CrossFit for me just wasn't fun anymore. It wasn't what it used to be. And like it was a lover, I had a hard time letting it go. I wanted it to work. I wanted to have this sit down where somehow miraculously things work out. But it just couldn't happen. I already felt like I didn't belong at my box any longer, and the nagging injuries and exhaustion made the answer even more clear. It was time to go. </font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3"><br></font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3">It wasn't an easy decision to make. I was the girl who swore that she would always CrossFit, and yes, even for a time considered a CrossFit vanity plate. (What up VAXFTGL?) But the writing was on the wall so to speak. So, I left. I had a very open and honest dialogue with my coach, and let him know that I just felt it wasn't right for me any longer. And so after some time, I decided to go back to swimming. I got back into a rhythm of things and felt like some of my achy soreness was going away, when all of a sudden the hammer fell. The dreaded 'S' word. <b>Surgery</b>. One of those nagging injuries and sore spots, wasn't just nagging. A protruding bone spur in my foot was aggravating the tendons, causing pain when I jumped, ran, and even walked too much. To make me comfortable the only possible answer was to have it taken out. This of course meant no walking, no driving, and of course no swimming. I was completely off my foot for nearly two months. When I was finally cleared, I learned that doing things, like flip turns, was complicated. My tendons couldn't support all the pressure and the surrounding area was still so swollen that even kicking, especially in my specialty of breaststroke was impossible. If ever the term "sagging heart" were to be used, I think that would aptly describe the months of February and March. I was finally given the go ahead in April, but despite the clearance, I couldn't. I just couldn't get off the couch. I was afraid to run. I was afraid to get on the bike. I just could not move forward. </font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3"><br></font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3">To further complicate things, was the fact that during this time my stress levels and overall unhappiness were becoming more and more evident. I was waking up in cold sweats at night, stressing to the point where I would cry, and was genuinely not a happy person. It felt like the whole entire world was crashing at once. You know that feeling. That feeling of why can't just ONE thing go right? As luck would have it, I was offered a job with a new company. One completely unrelated to education. And you know what? I took it. I was tired of being tired, and I was tired of being stressed, and I was TIRED of being unable to move forward. And so, I did it. I took the leap of faith that we all talk about taking when our chips are down, and we feel like we're in the hole. I told my principal that I would be resigning at the end of the year, and from there, things, while still challenging, seemed to get a whole lot better. </font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3"><br></font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3">But even though things were getting better, I still hadn't quite made peace with it all. I felt like a failure. I was leaving teaching, I had left CrossFit, I had left swimming again. My Paleo diet, ha, that was non-existent and my weight was going up again. Even though I was making changes, I still had to come to grips with it. I still needed to find peace with it. I needed to forgive myself. I'm sure that sounds strange. Forgive yourself? For taking a better paying job with less stress and walking away from something that wasn't making you happy? You had to forgive yourself for THAT? I know. It sounds (to steal my sister's words) cray cray, but you see, I'm not a quitter. I see things through, and I don't give up. I am a stubborn freakin' mule. I finish the things I start. Even really bad books and movies. </font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3"><br></font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3">But, this, this was hard. I felt like I was giving up on CrossFit, and my job. I felt like I was quitting. And in a way, I was, but there is a greater lesson to be learned here. Sometimes, we have to do what is really best for us, and sometimes that may mean giving up on something we said we'd do, or we swore we'd never leave. I had to forgive myself for quitting, but remind myself that it's ok. I am on the only one who can make me happy. And if I don't do it, no one else can do it for me. </font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3"><br></font></div><div><font face="Georgia" size="3">After some time, I learned that one of my former trainers had made the decision to open her own box. After careful consideration, I decided to join. I'm not focusing on competitions right now, and honestly, I'm not sure I will again. I'm focused on losing the weight I've gained, getting back in shape, and learning to have fun again. Joining her gym was just as hard as leaving the old one. Not because I dislike her, God NO! She's a fantastic coach! But because I somehow felt bad about not rejoining my old box. But I remember those feelings. I remember how disconnected I felt, and how I didn't enjoy things anymore. And I keep telling myself that I am the only person who can make me happy. I think if I can somehow make that my new mantra, I will find the peace and happiness that I'm looking for. <br></font><div><br /></div></div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-51416669400363496722013-07-23T14:15:00.001-04:002013-07-23T14:15:21.245-04:00The Break-Up<div id="dE_H" style=";width:100%; height:100%; ;">Over the course of my years at CrossFit, I've always done things my own way. I never jumped on the bandwagons of things right away, and I've always sort of marched to my own beat. I didn't compete right away.... I held on to my sparkly chucks for a long time.... held out on Lulu.... and I resisted going Paleo when everyone swore it was the rage. But as with most things in life, there comes a time. A time when you sit and evaluate, then reevaluate how you feel, what you want, and what it's going to take to get there. As a result, I have come to the conclusion that it's time. It's time to start receiving some of the information that has been in my face for a very long time. <div><br></div><div>For a very long time, the science and the success stories of being Paleo have been in front of me. Time after time, people shared how much better they felt. They shared recipes, they shared before and after pictures, and they urged me to come on board. But if there is one thing that I have learned about myself through CrossFit, it's that I'll get there when I get there, and if I'm not ready to receive you or the information you have, it's never going to sink in. I'm an analogy girl, so I'll put it like this. We've all, at some point, probably dated someone who was not right for us. And no matter how many times people sat you down to have "The Talk" where they tell you that he/she is "just so not right for you", you never listened. Why? Because you weren't ready to. You weren't ready to let go yet. You were not ready to open yourself up to the information. In your mind, he/she made you happy. Yeah, they had their faults, but there was so much good about them, and yeah he/she cheated on you, but it was just that one time and they've really changed..... bullshit. We've all been there. We were living in a fantasy world where everything was roses, and we weren't ready to let go. Letting go meant change, and let's face it, for a lot of us, CHANGE IS SCARY. We weren't ready to receive the information.</div><div><br></div><div>After many years of living in this really awful and horrible relationship, I'm finally ready to receive the information. I'm letting go of a very bad boyfriend that I've held on to for far too long. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b>Diet I'm sorry. It's not me, it really is you.</b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><u><br></u></b></div><div style="text-align: left;">I have felt lethargic and sick and been just a few pounds overweight for far too long. It is high time I did something to improve how I look and feel about myself. It is high time that I stop hurting myself with copious amounts of sugar, and stop dealing with my issues through indulging in food. Cortisol and sugar do not mix. It is high time that I stop being a slave to either of them. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><b>Diet, it's</b> <b><i>OVER</i></b>.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;">I have a nutritionist, who I respect highly. While sometimes I want to hit her for the things she tells me I need to do, I understand that she has my best interests and health at heart. And believe me when I tell you, that for me, having someone that I have to be accountable to during these early stages is key. I know that eventually I will move into that maintenance stage where it is up to me to maintain my healthy choices, but for now, knowing that I have to admit to her every gram of sugar or gluten or alcohol that I eat, helps me to make better choices. I'm not 100% Paleo right now. I'm trying, but I know there are still habits to break, and let's face it. I'm human. I forgot to say no cheese on the omelette the other day, I ate half a piece of toast. But slowly, and surely, I'm working on eliminating these things from my diet. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;">My point in writing this whole piece though, is to hopefully encourage other people who may be like me. Do things in your own time. Be ready to receive the information. Don't feel like you have to do things because people tell you to. Do them for the RIGHT reasons. But when you're ready, be prepared. It's hard work, but guess what? You're a CrossFitter. Do work, son. </div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-38106658596449249092013-07-02T16:16:00.001-04:002013-07-02T16:16:09.385-04:00Fighting the war on multiple fronts...<div id="dE_H" style=";width:100%; height:100%; ;"><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">If you know anything about war, or even if you don't you can probably figure out, that fighting a war is hard. It's not pretty, there's a lot of pain, loss, suffering, and a lot of things that make you open your eyes and look at yourself and the world around you in a different light. Miltary strategy will tell you that it is best to fight a war while on the high ground, with good protection, lots of ammo, and only in one general area. It's also really helpful if that area has good exfil route just in case things start to go sideways.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Fighting a war in more than one area, however, will lessen your supplies and split your defenses. I'm a girl who loves analogies, so let me just say that this is what my life has been like for several months. I'm not fighting a war on a hill, with a bunch of hescos and anti-tank guns. Nope. I've been fighting on so many fronts, that my reserves are all but depleted, my ammo is all but gone, and I'm about to make the call to fix bayonets. If you get that military analogy, then you totally get it. If you're sitting here saying, what the ef is she talking about.... allow me to explain. When you run out of ammo, and you're about to be overrun, the last thing you can do is fight your enemy hand to hand. Fix bayonets was always the last call when the enemy was within fighting space. Granted, that is an antiquated analogy, but still, you get the point. The enemy has been in my face for the last few months, and he is coming from all sides.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">When I first started this blog, I was so excited. I loved CrossFit, I wanted to spread the word, and I wanted to get out there and be all the CrossFit I could be. I was determined to be, as someone once said, "the poster child" for CrossFit. I zoned (yeah for those of you who have been around long enough, remember when CrossFit preached the Zone? Yeah, I do too.) hardcore and lost 20 pounds. I ran marathons, I began to compete in CrossFit, and then life smacked me in the face. My job got demanding, I worked more at my second job, I've gone further into debt instead of further out, and the happy CrossFit feelings just weren't there anymore. Those fun blogs that I loved writing just weren't coming. And truth is, they're still not. But.... the good news is, I'm getting there.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I'm a perfectionist. I am, and it's been one of my biggest downfalls of my adult life. I'm so driven and so determined to do everything and to do it really well that it causes problems. As life has put me through the paces, I've never allowed myself any slack. I've expected the same out of myself at CrossFit and everywhere else. And this year, more than any other year, as I approach my six year anniversary with CrossFit, I feel it. I feel as if my nutrition has been so terrible, I don't even want to admit what I've been eating. My sleep cycle has been atrocious. I've been working upwards of 10-15 hours everyday, and I have completely lost sight of the important things.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">At 31, I have had to have some long hard looks at what is going on with me. In the past nine months, I have had a shoulder injury that prevented me from going overhead for two months, I had a relatively invasive mouth surgery that left me out of the box for nearly 2 weeks, I had another health situation which sidelined me for another almost 2 full weeks, one of my best friends stopped speaking to me for reasons still unknown to me, and I gained nearly 15 pounds. All of that has taken a toll. It has felt like I'm out of ammo, and I've been fighting an enemy that is EVERYWHERE.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">That's a lot. I didn't want to write about that. I didn't want to share that. That's not happy. It's not upbeat. And it certainly isn't something that I'm proud of. But I've really had to sit and talk with myself and say that this has to change. I've got to do something about what I'm doing to myself or I'm not going to be able to keep CrossFitting or being a normal, sane human being. (normal for ME anyway.... :P) So, at 31, I finally have admitted that it's ok to ask for help. I've been regularly seeing a chriopractor to help keep my stuff in line. I've begun seeing a nutritionist who is helping me to (once and for all) beat the addiction I have to sugar. I've had to cut back (sometimes) at the restaurant in order to keep my sanity, and I have really had to give a hard look at my interactions with other people. Somewhere along the line, I stopped being a good friend. I forgot that in order to have a friend, you must be a friend. And truthfully, while I may feel as if I am ready to find someone, and not necessarily get married, but start spending some QT with them, I have to acknowledge that my schedule and where I have been mentally, makes that a challenge. I met someone who I do really enjoy.... the only problem is.... he doesn't feel the same.... and even if he did, Hawaii is a long way from DC. But, I'm still hopeful that someday that ship is going to come in for me. I know that somewhere in me, there is a fun, outgoing, and very caring person. She's gotten lost. And I feel as if for the past 2 years, I've really been trying to find her. It feels like right now, after bottoming out so to speak, this is the closest I have been to finding her in a long time. I have had to cut myself some slack. I've had to admit that I need help juggling everything. I've had to admit that I may not be able to compete at CrossFit. I have had to admit that sometimes, three days a week is all I can give. And the most important part of all of that is realizing that it really is OK.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; "><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">CrossFit teaches us to be hard on ourselves. To always push for more, and always work harder to get to that next level, but recently Jon Gilson wrote this fabulous article about setting realistic goals and not piling things onto ourselves too quickly. In my life, I have never agreed with something more. I'm getting the help that I need from my fantabulous team of people who are working to help put me back together again.... and once I'm there.... the sky really is the limit. I just need to keep fighting. </span></p><br /></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-56259524713477319322013-04-07T22:20:00.002-04:002013-04-07T22:23:39.867-04:00And the Open is done.... After a crazy week full of 10-17 hour days, 13.5 came and went. The Open is done. I repeated 13.5 Saturday morning in an attempt to get more than the 61 reps I managed to eek out on Thursday. I felt like if I could move through the second set of pull-ups faster, I should be able to manage more reps. But, even though I moved faster, I just couldn't do it. I couldn't get the big improvement I was hoping for. I eeked out +1 more rep and wound up with 62. And it ended. Just like that. With one final collapse on the floor, I finished the 2013 Open. There were no streamers, no banners, no balloons falling from the sky.... In the blink of an eye, it was over. I took a shower, I changed my clothes, and then I went to work a double. It was completely and totally..... anticlimatic.... <br />
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I can't say I'm pleased with the Open. I never am. I don't do well over a long period of time like this. For someone like me who routinely works long days, trying to stay up and competitive over a period of five weeks is hard. I don't want to make excuses, but it is. I am someone who is convinced that I CAN do it all. I can teach, serve, compete at CrossFit, volunteer with my group, and sing in my choir. I'm hard. I'm not easy. I'm complex and complicated but I still want to be able to do everything at 100%. Is that feasible? Some would say no. I say yes. But it makes me a challenging athlete to coach. It makes it hard to help me help myself. But regardless of my circumstances over the past several months leading up to the Open, it is what it is and the scores are final. A final look at the standings shows that out of 2365 women who completed all of the wods, I am 479. Last year there were only 1300 women who competed in the Mid Atlantic region. This year, that number nearly doubled, and I'm still well within the top half of that number. I guess I should be happy with that.... but a perfectionist like me is not ever satisfied..... Now it's on to the next one.... we'll see what that will be. Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-74040987002296053572013-04-01T23:33:00.000-04:002013-04-01T23:40:20.878-04:00Is it time for a change?It doesn't take much beyond a quick look down the side of my blog to know and understand that CrossFit is something that I have been doing for awhile. I have always loved CrossFit and I have been ever so thankful of the friends, nay, family I have made by suffering through brutal workout after brutal workout. For the past several months, my life has been in a bit of a flux. Since going back into the classroom in January '11, life has thrown me a lot of curve balls. I love teaching, but I'm beginning to wonder if it takes 13 hours a day to be good at what I do, if I have that in me to give. Working like that leaves NO time for anything else, including CrossFit. Especially not when you have to maintain a second job on the weekends to work off debt you've largely acquired because you work in a profession where it is not only commonplace, but expected, that you will put your own meager salary back into your classroom. <br />
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I have yearned, no ached, for what most would consider "normal". Weekends where I am not being required to complete work that cannot be completed in a normal day. Weekends that do not involve working a second job. Weekends that involve spending time with someone I care about, and spending time enjoying the company of good friends. Weekends that involve LIVING. I've made a large effort in the past few months to start putting myself back out there again. Not just meaning dating wise, but also making the time for friends and other people who have been important to me. I've also started singing again, something that I thought went onto a shelf 12 years ago never to resurface. All these things I've done in an attempt to put myself more firmly in a place where I want to be. <br />
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But yet, the one thing, aside from my dating life (oi vey!) that I just can't seem to get right is CrossFit. I am a competitive person. I love competing in CrossFit. But being competitive in CrossFit takes a lot of solid training, and a lot of hard work. It takes discipline and solid nutrition, not to mention, plenty of good rest, and a consistent schedule. All of which seem to be things that I am lacking in at the moment. I want to compete, but at the same time, I also don't want to let my team down. And if there is one thing I can say about this year's open (I'm limiting myself to ONE thing) it's that I feel like in every regard I have disappointed my coaches, and let my team down. In the two wods where I should have been able to just blow those numbers out of the water, I couldn't. I tried. It wasn't like I laid down and played dead, but I know I didn't perform to the level of where I otherwise should have. I know I did not perform where they wanted me to. I am, on many levels, embarassed. <br />
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So, here I sit. Holding the pieces of what seems like a very broken situation. If I can't live up to the expectations of my team, is it time for me to go? Is it time for a change of pace and a change of scenery? If I can't live up to my own expectations, is it time to change the expectations? Or accept the fact that I will never be at the level I want to be? I have goals, things I want to be able to do. But I'm finding it harder and harder to meet them. The Open has given me a lot to think about. Is it time for a change? I need to sort it out. Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-13212110753143100662012-08-22T15:43:00.001-04:002013-04-01T23:33:58.853-04:00Growing Up State: I am Penn State<div id="dE_H" style=";width:100%; height:100%; min-height:900px;position:relative;"><div id="drlimg"><img id="imgcb546b50-48a6-4129-aed6-71776d3bc8ea" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJIHJ5qbk0eVxKfzLMt2DvT8kicauPNmTeIAsD-1uoUMbJzLPkbhypmKXxGc4kOrH4lRkHcFjF8pTwpmILN_A9js7Wkpjem8FiH0jBlZuInOPlSeyvIJbgxaQUyxZ9uwY6Kb-g9jY9G4yf/" style="height:300px;width:400px;box-shadow:none;position:absolute;left:235px;top:10px;opacity:1;border-top-style:none;border-right-style:none;border-bottom-style:none;border-left-style:none;pointer-events:none" class="" mvc="true"><br></div><br><div> </div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div>Imagine if you will, a place where a small lazy river, winds endlessly through rounded mountain ridges. Imagine that this place is miles away from the nearest city, and speckled with small towns. There are farms and fields forming much of the landscape with major highways ocassionally criss-crossing through the land. Imagine if you will the people who live here. Mostly blue-collar, hard-working, and religious folks. You will find these people working hard Monday-Friday, coaching soccer and Little League on Saturday, and going to church on Sunday. </div><div><br></div><div>In many ways, it's like taking a step back in time. The nearest malls are miles away. There are many places where the nearest neighbor is too. Large storms still knock out power, and blizzards can, and do strand people in their homes for more than a mere 12 hours. There is no Starbucks on every corner. In many towns, everyone still knows everyone's name. And here, four wheel drives are driven for a purpose other than showing off how much money you have. In short, welcome home. Welcome to my home. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">I was born here. I was raised here. And for 22 years, I lived in one house. Central Pennsylvania, is an hour and a half from the nearest "bustling" city of Harrisburg. Philly and Pittsburgh take 3-4. In short, there's really not all that much to do. </span></div><div><br></div><div>This is a place where your neighbor knows you and will still give you the shirt off your back if you need it. It's a place where kids still play outside. They still climb trees, ride bikes, and occassionally wander too far from the house while they play in the creek. Towns still have parades, and driving with a gun in your car is perfectly normal. It's a place that has given birth to the Little League World Series, the Bloomsburg Fair, Middleswarth Potato Chips, and Mike Mussina. This is Central Pennsylvania. This is also Nittany Lion country.</div><div><br></div><div>From my earliest days, the seasons all had specific activities associated with them, and we looked forward to them all. Winter in Central PA means that you are guaranteed snow, and that it can be rest assured that you will watch a lot of movies when the plow doesn't come by your rural address for a few days. Spring means the return of the Crocusses, trout season, and AYSO spring soccer. Summer of course meant outdoor swim team and lots of sleepovers at the 'river lots' and campgrounds, maybe mixed in with a trip to Knoebels Amusement Resort, and of course, carnival season. And Fall. Fall was glorious. Not only for the gorgeous coloring of the leaves up Route 15 on the ridge lines, but for many other reasons. Fall was Fall AYSO soccer (and eventually high school soccer), hunting season, and football. Glorious, glorious football. </div><div><br></div><div>Central Pennsylvania, nestled into the valleys of the Susquehanna river, lies just over an hour due west from State College, or Happy Valley as it has been nicknamed. As far back as I can remember, our proximity to the University always meant that Saturdays in the fall were for Penn State Football. I can remember my dad at my soccer games with his radio headset on, trying to catch the broadcast while he watched us play. And honestly, you couldn't expect to get in the car during a Penn State game and hear a song on the radio. Every station would broadcast the Penn State game. I can still hear in my head the VERY particular way the announcer would always say, "I formation in the back field." Route 80 would be packed on Friday and Saturdays with people headed west then east, flying their PSU flags and sporting their stickers en route to the games. Route 15 and 322 brought people from the South up into Happy Valley. It was guaranteed that restaurants and stores along these routes would be packed every weekend, and you couldn't expect to drive through the area and not see a variety of flags, license plates, car magnets, and bumper stickers that all supported our Lions. </div><div><br></div><div>As a kid, I used to love to go visit my grandparents in Shamokin. A little out of Central PA it lies a little farther to the east, in coal country. Long time Penn State supporters, Pop Pop and Grandma went so far as to keep their Penn State blanket and a stuffed Nittany Lion in the back of their car. For a long time they had a van that traveled west for EVERY home game of the season. Once the stadium became too much for my grandfather's knees, they had to stop going. But even though they stopped going, they never stopped supporting. In the kitchen of their house for 20+ years, hung the Nittany Lion head with the saying "Love Ya' Lions" right over the kitchen sink. Being a Penn Stater was ingrained in me from an early age, and to that university I attach some very fond memories. </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">Some people though, don't understand why. Why has this program become so big? Why is it such a huge thing? Why is the "Nittany Nation" so strong? Growing up as a part of the Nittany Nation, but now living away from it, I have my own thoughts as to why that happened. State College, where Beaver Stadium is located, sits essentially nestled into the mountains as well. Although an hour closer to Pittsburgh, it still essentially sits in the middle of nowhere. The people of State College, and the students who attend University Park, are essentially an island. There's nothing there besides the town and the University. In part, I think that this is one of the reasons why the Nittany Nation is as strong as it is. There are few outsiders in the Penn State world because quite frankly, you really have to WANT to be there to be there. It is my belief, that as with CrossFit where people who suffer together form a community, the same type of thing happens in Happy Valley. Suffering together through freak snow storms and bleak winters away from much of the outside world, the people there band together in a way that many people do not understand. Some have used the word cult. I think that that is a bit extreme. I think the area simply doesn't appeal itself to everyone, so to the people who don't want to be there, it is easier simply to label the people that do. People who go there, or live there, are there for a reason. I strongly believe that that strong sense of commuity is one of the attractions. And I think that the football program is a continuation of it. There is NOTHING, NOTHING, I tell you, like sitting in a stadium with 108,000 (the average home game attendance) people who all want the same thing you do.</span></div><div><br></div><div>In addition to being a great weekend activity, everyone who was a Penn State fan, felt good about being a Penn State fan because of who led that team. To have a strong community was great. But to have a strong community that was led by what we felt was a strong leader, was fantastic. We had a man who talked about success with honor and had some of the highest graduation rates in college sports. He also spent his years as a coach giving back to the community in which he lived. Joe Paterno, despite having multi-million dollar paychecks, continued to live in the community of State College. Joe never bought a mansion, never moved into a gated house. He continued to live as a member of a community. He was just like us. He was a normal, everyday guy. He gave to the University Library, the Special Olympics, and gave his time to different University functions, like THON, throughout the year. He was the embodiment of good in a world that is not often so. Penn State fans felt a connection with that type of leadership, because it represented many of us. Many of us are small town folks who believe in community and in doing the right thing. </div><div><br></div><div>Flash forward to November of this past year. Jerry Sandusky and the scandal that errupted tarnished our university and our football team. It tore to pieces the image of a man that we had thought we knew, and had come to feel represented a lot of good in this world. As alumni, as fans, we were disappointed in our leadership. We were disgusted with what they allowed to occur. We were torn between continuing to think that Joe Paterno had done the right thing, and acknowledging that maybe someone we thought we knew, was not infallible. It was heartwrenching to watch. It was heartwrenching to hear the truth. It was hard to hear that someone we all loved and admired, was maybe not quite as worthy of that admiration as we thought. We wanted to believe that we couldn't be wrong. It was hard to hear that they had allowed children to be put through what they went through. For those of us who had been fans for decades, it was painful. I'm not comparing our pain to that of the victims, so please don't jump to conclusions, but if you have ever loved something very much, and watched it go down in a ball of flames, then you may understand what I mean. Penn State represented a lot of memories for us, and it was hard to watch something you love go through something like this. It wasn't long after the scandal errupted that the media began to paint everyone associated with Penn State with the same brush. </div><div><br></div><div>According to ESPN, EVERYONE knew. And according to the media, EVERYONE was to blame. Because we loved our community, and because we loved football and how it felt to be part of the Nittany Nation, and because we took PRIDE in being a part of the Penn State family, it was our fault. WE did this. Not Jerry Sandusky, not any of the administration, but US. That sort of thinking has been very hard to swallow. The blind hatred and the accusatory remarks that have been hurled at Penn Staters for simply being Penn Staters over the past few months has been horrific. The ESPN message boards are a flood of hate filled posts. As a Penn Stater, it's hard not to be upset by that. It's hard sometimes to keep quiet when all you hear are people attacking something that you love. It's a natural reaction to be defensive and to attack back. Penn State fans and alumni have been attacked relentlessly by the media for months. Is it not understandable why they are starting to get angry? Why they are starting to attack back? The media has accused anyone associated with Penn State of essentially being a bad person. It's hard NOT to come out swinging when someone says something like that. Although this is not the same, since I know most of you reading this are CrossFitters, I will use a CrossFit analogy here. How does it feel, when people who don't CrossFit, and don't understand it begin talking trash about CrossFit? About how wrong our methods are, about how wrong we are to eat and train like we do. About how CrossFit is a cult? What is your first initial reaction? To tell them that they are wrong, and to essentially fly off the handle at them for coming up to you and having this conversation without fulling even understanding what CrossFit is, right?</div><div><br></div><div>That's how many Penn Staters feel. We're tired of people who don't even know anything about the University talking a whole lot of trash. I can't tell you how many times I have heard people say that the University should be shut down. Do you realize that Penn State has over 20 branch campuses in addition to University Park in State College? Do people realize that Penn State has a partnership with Hershey Medical Center and that it is a top research school? Do people realize that Penn State engineering schools are ranked among some of the best? Do these people know that THON is the LARGEST student-run philanthropic organization in the COUNTRY and that last year ALONE they raised $10 million for children's cancer via the 4 Diamonds Fund? Penn State is genuinely a quality university. There are a handful of people who seriously messed up, and yes, they do need some form of punishment. But shutting down the university and belittling the students, faculty, and fans of Penn State is NOT the answer. It doesn't erase any of the past. It just makes it harder to move into the future. As a former, and now again current, Penn Stater through World Campus, I am proud to be a part of the Penn State family. I am proud of what this family can accomplish when they put their minds to it. I only hope that people who are not part of the Nittany Nation will read this and begin to have a clearer understanding of Penn State and what it means to many people just like me. Perhaps they will then be able to join with the students and alumni who are working for RAINN and begin to do some good as we move into the next chapter of Penn State's history.</div><div><br></div><img id="imga424b2fc-6c3c-4eb4-bb5a-8a0efd22a41a" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWkSfE3lEZ_M05St4gqdHRFjXIATi55fLuUKhYuU3eFhtO2j2uL-FCRTCSxz53Nf9rVldhqcbBkeYanFoR0KGvPHW7LiNEhajhjL1E8PbJe3Hx-9qv9L4Qb2D71Wlj0vO3sMIFVMODjI3H/" style="height:274px;width:400px"><div><br></div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-48151270898474120322012-06-29T15:24:00.001-04:002012-06-29T16:19:50.440-04:00Is strong REALLY beautiful?<div id="dE_H" style=";width:100%; height:100%; min-height:900px;position:relative;"><div id="drlimg"><img id="img4f1079aa-0c95-4ba3-aa87-574a8794b2ac" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVhqBxo2rOflRUXrOfnGEBLGHPgv3xiB0sJV9QAV749yoxZvsoLytKkJ65dKIkv8rcEiAD0sOJTap_TLU86wMw35j4P3jLIWQqC1sRyq1a4eE12PZIj_hOFQE2LMtJkr56RmQTckn5B4pf/" style="position:absolute;z-index:2001;height:187px;width:319px;top:338px;left:7px;background-color:transparent;border-top-style:none;border-right-style:none;border-bottom-style:none;border-left-style:none;box-shadow:none;pointer-events:none" mvc="true"></div><img id="imgb9cb9d41-825e-4976-8f23-80c78a13765f" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMcetXLy5hAMSpQY-g2ETXBFBFJUEu1ji4ylj24kOoAcbVPRwHmqr7To_ESz8eArEa-FrEBFtYp5vVXopmVaZw_INWjJNEZUd5-VGHd18MJUotN-icrIkdtm-wDrBwPKKFFFgbhJTeD9DO/" style="height:584px;width:349px"><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">If you've been a follower of my blog for awhile, or if you happen to know me in person, you know that food and I have not always had the best of relationships. If you're just dropping by for the first time, well, welcome. Food and I have not always had the best of relationships, just FYI. </span></div><br><div>I've had my good times with food, I've had my bad times with food, and my relationship with food is something that I will always be mindful of as I go through my life. Proper diet and weight management are things that I'm constantly thinking about. I'm always mindful of how I look, and how I feel about myself. Last week I was having a particularly rough week. The end of the school year was not good for my diet, and I've been feeling not so great about things lately. And as I was searching for recipe ideas for healthy meals to cook to get myself back on track, I was just a little bit bothered by something that I kept seeing.<br><br><div>As I scrolled through multiple blogs and multiple posts, I kept seeing "Strong is beautiful". This wasn't the first time I had seen the phrase, but I've noticed that this sort of "movement" has really been gaining some steam lately. When I first started seeing all the "Strong is beautiful" stuff, I was sort of excited. I think that moving away from the idea that every woman in the world should be a size 4 or under is a good thing. I think it's healthy. It's like the pendulum of beauty image began to swing in a healthy direction. But I've been noticing lately, it seems, that more and more I'm seeing those same words attached only to pictures of extremely fit women, like Annie Thorisdottir. Now, before anyone jumps on me and says I'm hating on Annie, allow me to say that I think Annie is gorgeous. I think I would make out with Annie if she asked. She is incredibly talented as an athlete and has obvious amounts of dedication to her sport. And I'm NOT saying that women like Annie are not beautiful.</div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">My issue with this situation is this. By attaching the phrase "Strong is beautiful" to women like Annie, it seems to be promoting the ideal that you can't be beautiful unless you have a very low percentage of body fat and a perfectly ripped body, like Annie. It's almost as if you can't be considered beautiful unless you look like THAT. Yesterday Facebook (God BLESS Facebook) trended me to an article about the beautiful women of CrossFit. Again, every single one of them had six pack abs, ripped arms, and was completely toned. Again, are those women all beautiful? Absolutely, but again, it's almost as if the beauty image pendulum has completely swung the other way. It's almost as if it's saying that unless you are completely toned and ripped, you are not strong or beautiful. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">In my opinion, which I know does not count for very much, there seems to be a contradiction going on. If strong is beautiful, then regular old girls who work out hard and are trying the best they can to be healthy should be beautiful too, no? So then, if that's what we <i>REALLY </i>mean, where are the pictures of them? Why are their bodies not being heralded as beautiful too? Why are they not being featured in the same photos as the Annies of the world? Why does it only apply to the perfect physiques of the CrossFit goddesses? </span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">Would I love to be a CrossFit goddess and look like Annie? Absolutely. (It would probably help my dating life a lot..... then again, shutting my mouth and not always expressing my opinions might too.... but I digress.) I think we all would because, let's be honest, those abs are freaking awesome and who WOULDN'T want to have those? But I know that the particular amount of dedication to CrossFit and dieting that it would take for me to get there is just not in my cards right now. But in the meantime, does that mean that I'm not beautiful? (Be careful how you answer that question.... this is MY blog after all.... :P) Does it mean that the woman who just dropped 20 lbs isn't beautiful? Does that mean that the woman who is a size 10 and deadlifting 275, but does not have ripped arms isn't beautiful? </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">This post is NOT trying to take anything away from the hard work those women have put into their dieting and their sport, but I just think that we (and by "we" I mean society) need to slow down and think carefully about "Strong is beautiful" and how exactly that message is being portrayed. I think it's great that people are finally coming around to the idea that stronger women and athletes are beautiful, but I think that if we are not careful about how we send this message, then we will have missed a very important boat altogether. If strong is truly beautiful, then I think we need to begin to celebrate the beauty truly, as it is, in all different kinds of shapes and sizes. </span></div></div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-9540133326637504612012-06-28T18:17:00.001-04:002012-06-28T18:24:56.179-04:00How to Date a CrossFitter.... if you are one...<div id="dE_H" style=";width:100%; height:100%; ;">So, last week I gave out some helpful tips for people who wanted to date a CrossFitter, but were not CrossFitters themselves. So, I guess it's only fair if I give some dating advice for people who are CrossFitters. Since I'm single, I'm not really sure if I <i>SHOULD </i>be giving dating advice, but.... meh, oh well. I'll do it anyway, cuz, well, it's my blog and I can! <div><br></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><b>How to Date a CrossFitter....if you are one!</b></i></div><div style="text-align: left;"><i><b><br></b></i></div><div style="text-align: left;">I think it's always better to start with the DON'TS and get them out of the way... so let's do that again shall we? Some of these rules may only apply if we CrossFit together, others are universal! </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>DON'T</b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b><br></b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>1. Touch my knife, don't touch my Johnson...or my weights- </b>This rule really only applies if we happen to CrossFit at the same box, but it's an important one. You'd be pissy if somebody messed with your weights mid-wod, so why do it to your SO? That's even MORE annoying. Just becuase I'm your SO that doesn't mean that I won't be annoyed if you try to share/mess with my stuff. It also doesn't mean I won't smack you in the face with my kettlebell. So, bottom line, HANDS OFF! </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>2. Forget that WOD time is WOD time.- </b>I realize that you like my butt, and that my boobs look AWESOME in my Lulu tanktop, HOWEVER, time and place buddy. I also realize that I'm freaking awesome and that you want to tell me how much you love me.... but.... again, time and place. While I do enjoy the ocassional chalk print on my butt, when we're wodding, please refrain from calling me shnookums, baby cakes, and pookey, and store up all those lovey dovey things for later.... when I can properly show you how much I appreciate them..... *hint hint, wink wink* I have a totally badass reputation to uphold in the box, and I won't have others thinking it's ok to call me shmoopy pants. If you choose to ignore this rule, I promise I will reveal your mother's pet name for you and post your naked baby photos to Facebook. And perhaps a few embarassing photos of you from the mid-90's. Consider yourself warned. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>3. Whine if I can clean/snatch/overhead squat more than you.- </b>Listen, we all have our strengths and weaknesses when it comes to CrossFit. I just happen to be good at lifting heavy things after being a swimmer for 16 years, but I SUCK when it comes to metcons. So please don't get all mopey and act like a 3rd grader if I happen to clean more than you on a given day. It's not sexy. Whining about it just might make me accidentally dump my bar on you. And I don't care who you are.... 100 pounds is 100 pounds and it hurts if I slam it into you.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>4. Rub it in that you are more like Speedy Gonzalez than me.- </b>Trying to make yourself feel better about your strength weakness by rubbing it in that you are faster than me makes my attraction to you fade faster than than New Kids on the Block comeback. Don't try to put me down to build yourself up. Embrace your weaknesses and do work, son!</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>5. Fan your feathers. -</b> Ok, so let's say you're a guy that CAN lift more than me. You don't need to flaunt it at every turn. If I drop my bar and it needs to be back on the rack, I'll strip it, or tag team it back up there. I don't need you to come over and clean/snatch my 1RM like it's child play. Really? I get it, you're able to lift my 1RM easily. Put the plummage away and go lift something else besides MY bar. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>6. Think it's necessary to make me jealous by wodding shirtless and flirting at the gym- </b>If you have to ask why, then this is CLEARLY not going to work. If you like to wod shirtless 'cause you do, that's one thing. If you need to have every female at the gym staring at you and touching your perfectly formed six-pack, then move along. I like you because I like YOU, not your biceps and six-pack. Although they are nice to see and touch.... they're NOT why I'm dating you. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>7. Play "the penis mightier" with all the guys at the gym- </b>Listen, you like me, that's cool and I dig that. But our thing is our thing, and the whole world does not need to be informed. If we like each other, sooner or later, people WILL figure it out. You don't need to give every man at the box the "hands-off" talk, or the "eyes-off" talk either. Many of those guys are my friends and us dating won't change that. If you can't handle me having male friends, I suggest you do like Michael Jackson and "beat it". </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>DO</b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b><br></b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>1. Feel free to cheer for me.- </b>So long as you're not calling me baby cakes, shmoopy, or any other pet name, I whole-heartedly appreciate your support, especially if it's during a metcon! </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>2. Celebrate my success.-</b> Be proud of me when I do something good and I promise that I will cheer just as loud when you hit a big PR! </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>3. Tell me how hot I look after a WOD.- </b>If you'd like to tell me AFTER the WOD how hot I look without any make-up and drenched in sweat.... well then, by all means! :) </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>4. Be my partner.- </b>We don't need to do EVERY partner WOD together, we don't have an imbilical cord after all, but I don't think there's anything wrong with us WODding together. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>5. Practice being healthy with me.- </b>There is strength in numbers. Healthy eating and wod habits are easier to keep when there is a buddy system. Think "Thunder buddies for life!" So let's get together and work on our world dominance.... ok ok fine... maybe just our CrossFit dominance. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br></div><div style="text-align: left;">So there you have it folks.... How to Date a CrossFitter... if you are a CrossFitter. As usual, I reserve the right to ammend my list! :) Hope it made you giggle at least a little! :) </div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-32819665339872733122012-06-28T11:03:00.001-04:002012-06-28T11:08:03.105-04:00Katie on: Affordable Healthcare<div id="dE_H" style=";width:100%; height:100%; ;">A large number of Americans already have affordable healthcare. It's called CrossFit. :) I think though, that since CrossFit and healthy eating are known to PREVENT many types of ailments, my insurance company should cover my monthly gym membership and count it as preventative care. ;) Just a thought.... </div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-60659015275977330652012-06-25T12:00:00.001-04:002012-06-25T12:00:30.392-04:00I need 100 CC's of Mario Kart!!!<div id="dE_H" style="width:100%;height:100%; ;" ;width:100%;="" height:100%;="" ;"="" "="">So, last week I was outside Philly visiting my friend. He just had surgery to reattach his hamstring, which for him, has been nothing short of torture. He's always been a very active soccer player and coach, even after college. For him to now be forced to lay on the couch (he can't even sit) in an immobolizer is absolutely torturous for him. I went to visit just so he could have some company and have someone to talk to and watch movies with. As an added bonus, I found out that CrossFit KOP (King Of Prussia) was LITERALLY .8 miles from his house. I was stoked! A wod in the process?!? Sweet. The drop-in was great and I hit the hero wod from the main site, which was pretty painful for all intensive purposes. I had to modify the HSPU, but the time wasn't too bad for 12 rounds. Although the drop-in was fun, and was a serious highlight, I have a confession that I have to make. Until last week, I had never played a Wii. So Kev and I decided that well, I needed to play. We of course decided to play Mario Kart. I am an absolutely HORRIBLE driver. No really. We were playing on a team and he kept telling me my only job was to make sure I didn't finish last. That's NOT exactly a vote of confidence! LOL. Anyway, playing Mario Kart with him made me think of the rap video Remy did. If you don't know Remy, well.... then you just don't know. He's INFAMOUS in the NOVA area for his spectacularly done "Arlington Rap". (You Tube it.... IMHO, SPOT ON!) Well, he also made one called the Mario Kart rap. I'm going to amuse you all with it now. Because, well, I can!!! <br /><div><br /><br></div><br /><br /><iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ItTotBfeLT4" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe> </div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-12179889734570180952012-06-23T11:49:00.001-04:002012-06-24T01:22:21.456-04:00How to date a CrossFitter.... if you're not one....<div id="dE_H" style=";width:100%; height:100%; ;">As a single, now thirty something living in DC, I can attest to the fact that dating is difficult. You have the other person's quirks, your own insecurities, and not to mention schedules. I mean, who knew that dating required you to have ready access to your Google calendar just to make sure your evening was free? Didn't this use to be easier? Now, dating is hard enough on its own, but as a CrossFitter, we add a WHOLE other level of complicatedness to things. That's right, I said complicatedness. I invented a new word this morning. You should NOT be shocked by this at all. Anyway, I've decided that to help UNcomplicate things, I would make a handy little list of do's and DON'Ts for those non-CrossFitters out there to help deal with us CrossFitters in the dating world. Get ready for it folks, 'cause here it is...<br><br><div style="text-align: center;"><b><i style="background-color: white;"><font class="Apple-style-span">How to Date a CrossFitter</font><font class="Apple-style-span">.... if you're not one</font></i></b></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">I think it's always easier to start with the don'ts.... so let's warn the nice folks up front, shall we?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b><i>DON'T</i></b></span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>1. Compare your workout to mine</b>- I have no burning desire to hear all about how you are such a badass because you did 10X5 sets of dumbbell curls at the gym and how your traps are so massive. Great, good for you... but if it came down to it, could you pick me up and run with me from a burning building? No? You can't because you spent all your time watching your perfect self in the mirror? Ok, well you bascially just admitted that to me, so chances are I'm going to forgo a second date with you. Avoid killing the relationship before the relationship sperm can connect with the relationship egg and form a beautiful relationship baby. Practice verbal self-restraint!!!</span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>2. Tell me that CrossFit is too expensive and lame and that you don't understand why people do it.</b>- The door is there. Any questions?</span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>3. Complain about my calluses.</b>- I worked hard to get those and I will not hesitate to slap you with them.</span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>4. Tell me that I should/not eat (insert food here)</b><insert food="" here=""><b>.</b>- Listen, I'm dating you. You're not my nutritionist... well unless you were my nutritionist and now we're on a date, but whatevs..... If we HAPPEN into a conversation about food, great! But don't sit and analyze what's on my plate or offer me your food advice. Chances are, if you do, I will hammer throw my plate at your face and you will STILL pay for my dinner. 'Cuz that's how I roll.</insert></span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>5. Complain about my 0515 or 1745 workouts.</b>- Regardless of whether I go early in the morning or late at night, my time is my time and those crazy mothers in there with me are my family. Try to come between me and my family and I will "go to the mattresses". Ya heard?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><font style="padding-left:3em"> </font><font> </font></span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>6. Tell me that my bruises look "suspicious"</b></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">.- REALLY?!?!?! *BITCH SLAP*</span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>7. Question my workout wardrobe</b></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); ">.- Ok, so I'm a thirty year old woman who likes glitter. I get it. It's a little odd, but work with me. Like you don't have any out of the ordinary obsessions? Please. That collection of Marvel super hero beer steins isn't exactly SCREAMING well-rounded man. And as for my knee-high sock collection... if my outfits are going to match, I really DO need to have a wide variety of colors. Who cares if they take up half my underwear/sock drawer? And are my pants too tight for the gym? NO. Tighter pants, means better bar path. If the dudes stare at my butt, better for you because, while they may get to look, you're the one that gets to touch. Well, maybe. It depends, what date number is this? I reserve the right to withhold butt touching until the second date.</span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>8. You dare tell me that lifting heavy weights will make me look like a man</b>.- Do I look like I have a penis and brostache to you? Clearly not if you agreed to go on a date with me. </span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>9. Touch my bar, or my jumprope.</b>- Ever see Finding Nemo? MINE! </span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>10. Play "the penis mightier" with the guys at the gym.</b>- They're my friends. I'm on a date with you. Any questions? </span></div><div><br></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b><i>DO</i></b></span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>1. Support my goals.</b>- I love CrossFit and I will work hard to be better at it. Instead of trying to hold me down, help me work towards being leaner and more badass. I'll be even sexier in the long run, and that can only work out well for both of us. ;)</span></div><div><br></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>2. Learn the lingo</b>.- Even though it may seem like I talk in riddles with acronyms all the time, trying to understand and asking questions will make you even more attractive in the long run. And it will be super hot when you ask me how my Fran time was today.</span></div><div><br></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>3. Just do it.</b>- Try a wod. If it's not for you, it's not for you. But the couple that WOD's together, stays together. Just sayin'. </span></div><div><br></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>4. Be your own healthy individual.</b>- If CrossFit's not for you, ok. Then do your own thing, unless it's tricep kickbacks and bicep curls.... I am not sure I could handle that. I promise I'll be as supportive of you as you are of me, but don't be a couch potato. If I really like you, I'd like you to still be around in 30 years.... maybe.... </span></div><div><br></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>5. Understand that chalk and bruises wind up in LOTS of places.</b>- No, REALLY. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>6. Keep a few ice packs on hand at your place.</b>- Ocassionally, I may need you to play doctor. </span></div><div><br></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>7. Try not to stare at all the other girls at the CrossFit competitions.</b>- I know it's hard, but I said TRY. You're there for me, remember? And if you want to go home with me.... well, eyes forward. </span></div><br><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><b>8. Believe that even if Rich Froning walked into the room and asked me to make out with him, I'd still go home with you.</b> </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "> There you have it folks. The Do's and Don'ts of dating a CrossFitter.... if you're not a CrossFitter. Coming soon, the Do's and Don'ts of dating a CrossFitter.... if you ARE a CrossFitter. </span></div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-41460898232676722072012-06-14T21:49:00.001-04:002012-06-14T21:49:05.755-04:00NOTHINGSo last week I mentioned about how my kids were working on filling out teacher report cards on me to grade me as a teacher as a fun end of the year thing. Well, I thought that the comment about the omelette maker was pretty good, but I had a student top that. So they question was, "What should I be if I was not a teacher?" I had a student who responded as follows: "Nothing. She probably doesn't know how to do anything else." Escuse me, WHAT? I'm capable of holding down PLENTY of other jobs if I wanted. HARUMPF! I think my indignation is showing! Truth be told, I don't think he meant it as an insult. He is a student who does have some needs in the area of social skills but it was just such an "OH BURN!" moment that I HAD to share. It was truly too priceless.
PS- I have been going to the gym.... it's just that the end of the year stuff is so much more interesting to write about.... Wait til you hear about the advice that they have for next year's fourth graders!
Oh and keep your eyes peeled... a blog called "How to Date a CrossFitter" is in the works!Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-16461333830825174402012-06-07T10:00:00.001-04:002012-06-07T19:14:57.156-04:00The omelette maker makes an impact....So, as of Tuesday, it was official. My students took their last SOL, and I'm officially done with the "testing" season. So, now what? Well now we get to start doing some fun, end of the year activities, like the "Teacher Report Card". Every year I give my kids a report card that they get to fill out... ON ME! It's fun for them since I always grade them. It's their time to give me feedback. Now some kids just put that everything was great and wonderful and that everything was great, but others really take their time and give the best constructive criticism they can. Sometimes what they come up with is really, REALLY funny. Kind of like their advice letters to next year's fourth graders... but that is a WHOLE other post.
Anyway, on the report card, there is a question that asks the students what they think I should do if I wasn't a teacher. I get some interesting stuff like day care worker, doctor... one of my students said I should be a therapist. But the funniest was one I got this year, because I am so used to being in that room with the kids and watching them, that I sometimes forget that they are also watching ME. So this year, one of my students said that I should be a chef. That wasn't so far out there, but her reasoning was what got me. She said I should be a chef because I "always have such yummy looking breakfasts" when I'm in the classroom.
It sort of hit like a ton of bricks, but if you remember the omelette maker I was talking about in my post last week, you know what she's talking about. True story. Most days the omelette doesn't get made until right before the kids come. Having the class ready for the day takes priority over food so it's always the last thing to get done before the kids arrive. The coffee is brewed first thing, that's a MUST, but the breakfast can wait. So more often than not, as the kids are coming into the room from breakfast themselves, I am also eating mine. So, although I'm not meaning to, I'm clearly making an impact on my kids. They are observing my eating habits and noting what I'm eating. I guess it just made me ever more aware that they are little sponges that soak up EVERYTHING that we as adults do. So, while it made me laugh a little bit that my omelette maker made such an impact on her, it also made me realize that I really do need to be careful because I'm clearly setting an example for these kids. But at least in this case, I can be proud of the fact that the example I'm setting is a good one. Eat breakfast, and eat a HEALTHY one at that. Eggs, peppers, onions, avacado.... all good things for them to be eating! Thank goodness that they weren't observing my swearing habit! Perhaps I'll buy them all omelette makers as end of the year gifts to encourage their healthy eating habits.... ;) Ah, a chef... LOL. My kids crack me up!Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-4422084311199161942012-06-03T17:32:00.002-04:002012-06-03T17:32:19.036-04:00Thank you sir! May I have another?If you're not a teacher or involved in the education world, you probably wonder why the hell I keep saying SOL time, SOL time, SOL time. SOL's are basically the standardized testing given in Virginia. My effectiveness and worth is pretty much tied to the results that come from those tests. It's not the only thing that my administrators look at but it's a big indicator of how good I am at my job. So, for the past month I've been all but completely enveloped in these tests. So, when good things happen in the box IN SPITE of the stress and poor eating/sleeping regime of the past month, I get REALLY excited.
This past Friday was First Friday at our box which means that we get to choose our own hero or girl workout to hit. I decided that I should hit Annie since I knew we would be lifting heavy on Saturday at competition club. It was 0500, I was tired and I was thinking I just needed to DO WORK. I loosened up and hopped on the clock. My abs felt like Jello but everyone could use a little ab work right? So, anyway, I just kept going and pushed through and nearly peed my pants when I saw the clock. 7:40. Seriously.... I thought the clock was joking. I PR'd on Annie about 2 months ago by nearly 3 minutes, and pulled it in 9:20ish. I thought then that that was awesome. 7:40 just about blew my mind. I wandered around for awhile and then thought that Annie was really short so I really ought to do more work. So I decided that it would be a great idea for me to do something that didn't involve a ton of heavy lifting but I could still hit. So I decided on DT. I warmed up and started in only to realize that after I had done a full round I had the wrong weight on the bar.... DAMNIT!
So I reloaded the bar and started again. I felt lethargic and thought after all that wasted energy there was no way that this was going to end well. In my mind I shut off the clock and just kept tring to move. I broke at strategic points but tried to make rest minimal. On rounds 4/5 Jerry got in my face a bit and made me keep going when I started to lag a bit. The last set of jerks felt horrible but I put them up and dropped the bar only to realize I had JUST pr'd AGAIN. I dropped at 10:16, which was over a 30 second PR. I was incredibly happy with both of those results. I really couldn't ask for more.
Well, I got more. On Saturday at competition club, we were doing a 1RM snatch, a 1RM clean and jerk, and a max front squat x 2. I have been struggling with my snatch lately (<-------- insert laughter here) but two weeks ago I put up a new PR at 120. Then Saturday despite being tired, I hit a 122 snatch. Stoked doesn't even begin to describe how good that felt. Three PR's in two days? Hellz yeah! I will take it! Thank you sir, may I have another?! The PR was so great in fact that when I SMASHED myself in the forehead with a barbell because my turnover was WAY too slow, I couldn't even be mad about it. It hurt like a son of a gun, and after five years I have NEVER done that, but I guess there's a first time for everything! I'll just say "thank you sir, may have another?" for the PR's and NOT the forehead smashing.... :PKatiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-76661273012120683782012-06-03T10:02:00.001-04:002012-06-03T10:03:07.109-04:00Whole Foods Parking Lot....Talking about nutrition yesterday made me think of this.... if you've never experienced a Whole Foods, you may not understand.... but if you have... I have to say I SWEAR this is spot on! I am not in LA, but Alexandria has one..... and let me tell you, with their underground parking and little cones to keep you from going all different ways, it does get REAL!
<iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/2UFc1pr2yUU" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5977007359627193869.post-26980322116572146632012-06-02T16:15:00.000-04:002012-06-02T16:15:07.064-04:00Katie on : Making it work, nutritionally speaking....If you've been a long time follower of my blog, or even if you are a relative newcomer who has perused only a small portion of my blogs, you'll notice that I talk a lot about how hectic my schedule is, and also how I really need to get myself on a solid nutrition bandwagon. It seems that my hectic schedule and eating well are two things that don't jive together very well. <br />
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Over the course of the past few years, it has been a solid source of frustration to me. I will often feel like I've made progress, only to have another life hiccup and take steps backwards. I suppose that's how life is for everyone, but it seems like for me, it happens more often. Because of how my life is, I've given up on the idea that I will be a strict Paleo eater. I hate to sound like a naysayer and I know that I'm going against everything that CrossFit preaches, but the bottom line, for me anyway, is that I'm just not able to devote enough of my time to it. Eating healthy takes some consorted effort and dedication at first until it becomes natural. For me, the fact is that I simply do not have the time. People say, "Cook on the weekends." I say, "I work every weekend." People say, "Have your meals delivered." I say, "There's a reason I work a second job!" <br />
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Right now, for me, it is not feasible to spend the time in the kitchen, finding recipes that I like, playing around with ingredients, and generally devoting the time to it that it needs. Now, having said that, that also does not mean however, that I spend my nights eating McDonald's and chowing down on pints of ice cream. (Although to be fair, it is SOL season and my sugar intake has spiked drastically because of stress, however, this is unusual.) I try to make the best choices that I can, when possible, and I also try to put myself in the best possible situation to BE successful. It's kind of like what I was saying the other day in my blog about "The Serious Factor". You want to put yourself in the best position possible to BE your best and DO your best. Sometimes, you'll get amazing results, and sometimes you'll fall a bit short because, well, that's life and we don't always get what we want. But putting yourself in the BEST position possible to be your best and be successful in your endeavors is key. <br />
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So, if you're like me..... then I know you feel like nutrition can be your enemy. If you work two jobs, 12 hour shifts, or have 3 kids and FEEL like you work 4 jobs.... here are a few things that I do (and am TRYING to do) that may help you in the same way they have at least HELPED me get started on the right track. I'm human, and I am constantly trying to figure this all out. I do sometimes fall off the wagon, I make mistakes, and sometimes I flat out get to the point where I just don't care. I'm not perfect. But these are some things that are helping to keep me completely "out of the weeds" as we say in the restaurant world. They keep me from getting so far off the path that I can't find my way back. <br />
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<strong>1.) The microwave omelette maker (aka The Best $5 I Ever Spent)</strong><br />
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Over Christmas, I was shopping for my sister's rubber bakeware that she wanted (it's actually really cool, you should look that up too!) when I spied a little thing hanging off the side of a rack. It looked interesting and it was $5. It said it was a microwaveable omelette maker. Now, I'm someone who is out of my house and either at the gym by 0515 or at work in my classroom by 0700. I also happen to live with 2 roommates, so making a lot of noise in the morning to make breakfast is out of the question. So that leaves me a few options. Don't eat breakfast (negatory, I need food and get cranky), make something that doesn't take a lot of noise like oatmeal (also negatory for self-explanatory reasons), or eat on the way (feasible, but not as healthy and also pretty $$$$$$ when you eat out EVERY day). So I thought, what the heck, and I threw it in my basket. I gave it a test run that night and was pretty impressed with it. It worked as indicated and now it allows me to make an omelette at SCHOOL every morning. I make it work. I keep some already scrambled eggs (which you can make yourself and place in one of the jugs that tupperware designed for liquids, or you can buy them already scrambled at the grocery store, which is what I do), one green pepper, one red onion, some mild cheddar cheese, and individual packages of "Number One Guacamole" in a lunch bag. It's easy to tote around or leave in the fridge and then I just replace as needed. It's a great way to keep me from stopping to buy a bacon, egg, and cheese somewhere and spending more money, and it's also really healthy too. Well, minus the cheese, cause that's not Paleo, but everything else is. I'm not a mushroom person, but it would be easy to put any them, or any other vegetable or meat in there if you wanted to. I tried for awhile to do bacon, but I kept forgetting it at home, so I just stuck with the veggies. But the omelette maker works either way! If you just put the veggies in raw, they will cook while the egg cooks in the omelette maker. In the microwave it takes about 4 1/2 minutes. It's seriously great and keeps me on track for breakfast. Not to mention, if I forget my lunch, it never hurts to have more protein and good fat for lunch! Double bonus! Clean up on it is also easy as it pops apart and is dishwasher safe (in the top rack). Definitely worth the $5 investment! Or if you have a sink and can wash it at work, it's small and keeps easily in a desk drawer. I also keep a paring knife in the lunch bag to cut the veggies at work or you could also prepare them at home if you have the time. <br />
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<strong>2.) Power Supply</strong><br />
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Here in DC we have a company that will deliver Paleo lunches, dinners, and recovery meals to local affiliates that have a large enough interest in their service to make the delivery worthwhile. While the service is somewhat expensive, you are paying for the conveinance and the fact that you don't have to buy groceries anymore. I began by doing lunches and dinners for 5 days, but that was too much for me. I felt locked in and also, it was wicked expensive. So now, I have them deliver lunches for 5 days. If I don't happen to care for one of the lunches that gets sent, I make an omelette or I will try to find a way to eat part of it with something else. Since they come prepared and pre-packaged, I literally don't have to do anything with them, except decide which one I want to eat, and usually heat part of it. it's nice because I have now almost guaranteed that I will eat healthy for breakfast and lunch, but it still leaves room for me to cook if I want at night too. It's a pretty sweet set-up! If you are near a major city, I would suggest at least googling it and looking to see if something like that exists. If you're not, then stick with the omelette maker for lunch too! :P <br />
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<strong>3.) Invest in a good blender and a coffee maker</strong><br />
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For me, staying away from Starbucks is HARD. I really like my fru fru coffee drinks like the lattes and mochas. But, unfortunately, there is a TON of sugar in those things. Have you ever actually LOOKED at the nutrition ingredients? In a Venti white mocha, there are 75 grams of sugar. 75! That's literally almost your entire day's worth of carbs in your morning coffee! Whoa! Now, not all their drinks pack the same punch, but knowing what we know about carbs and why we gain/lose/hold weight, it would seem to make sense to steer as clear as humanly possible. So, I recommend investing in a coffee maker. It doesn't have to be a $100 model, but spend about $30 and invest in one that allows you to set a delay, so that you don't have to even worry about your coffee in the morning! And, if you are like me and are a serious sugaraholic and need some flavor to your coffee, try coffee creamer. I know, I know, I KNOW it is not Paleo. But, if we're talking the difference between 50 grams of sugar from the syrup and about 6 grams from the Hazelnut creamer I use, I'm ok with that. Really. I know it's not perfect, but I get my coffee, I can drink it on the way to work, and it helps to keep me sane. If you want to be a little more hardcore then me, try almond milk. As far as I can tell, it's friendly since it's not actually dairy, and it only has 1 gram of carbs per serving I believe, so long as you get the unsweetened one. Either way, it's still better than Starbucks! <br />
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Secondly, invest in a good blender. Fruit smoothies are your friend! We're in berry season right now, so this is even MORE of a reason to get a good blender. I know what I said earlier about roommates and noise, but as far as I'm concerned, weekends are game on. I made eggs on the stove today, some bacon, and added in some carbs with a fruit smoothie. I had to buy a new blender because my roommate threw away the rubber part of my blender that actually seals the blender closed on the bottom, so I had to invest in a new one. And, let me tell you, the Ninja is seriously kick ass. It doesn't allow you to choose a speed like a normal blender, but seriously, it's the easiest blender to work. You put it on, make sure it's locked and press down on the handle so it turns on. To turn it off, let go of the handle. Pushing at intervals pulses the blender and there are 3 full sized smoothie cups that you can also use to make and then take smoothies. It's seriously awesome. Clean up is easy because the blade pops out (no unscrewing), the container is plastic (no worries about chipping or breaking glass) and everything is dishwasher friendly! Hellz yeah! I made smoothies today with fresh berries, some frozen, and almond milk. They came out awesome! And, the straws that I had from my Starbucks plastic cups fit perfectly into the smoothie cups. It seriously is almost like fate. But the blender comes with other blades to make different types of dough, and it says if you use it in pulse mode, you can use it as a food processor, so making something Paleo, like cauliflower rice, would be super easy to do and clean up! It's seriously worth the money. It was a little bit more then my $50 Oster blender from before, but I'm definitely happy with it. The biggest difference that I noticed is that I didn't have to do any scraping of the sides. If you're a smoothie person you know what I mean. Stop, scrape, blend. Stop, scrape, blend. Didn't have to do it at all! It was AWESOME! Not to mention, it's called the Ninja! ;) <br />
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<strong>4.) Don't keep it in the house! </strong><br />
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This is a good rule of thumb for anyone who is trying to eat healthy, whether it's Paleo, Zone, Weight Watchers, WHATEVER. If you know you're susceptible to eating something bad if it's around, then don't keep it around. I will not allow myself to bring tubs of ice cream, bread, soda, or candy into the house. I know that I will eat it without a doubt. If I'm cheating, then I will buy something small and eat it away from the house. One can of soda, one small bag of chips, ice cream AT a restaurant. This helps in two ways. One, because I can't bring it home, and two because it's in a much smaller quantity so it prevents me from falling off the wagon over and over again because I "have to finish the tub" or I "have to finish the bag". It's a small trick, but one that I've found to be particularly effective. <br />
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Like I said above, I'm human and I make mistakes. I'm also not perfect. These things help keep me from going back to the way I was.... eating anything that my heart desired, and also eating anything that made me heavy and not healthy. So if any of these sound good, feel free to try them or use them! But also feel free to give me feedback. Did it help? Is there something you think might work better? I like to help others, which is why I share my experiences and thoughts on this blog. Well that and because sometimes people get tired of listening to me talk so much... ;) But I also like to get feedback and get new ideas. So feel free! Let's make it work!Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00526466324237785391noreply@blogger.com3